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I will try..it doesn't show that well, unless you see it, in person. My natural hair was black. In my 40's, I stared dying it auburn, and now, I'm on the blonder side. I'm having my streaks done on the 20th of June. (Due for a touch up) and I'll try to get a good shot then. People, do say, they like my hair. the black streaks are very subtle, and I only have about 2, blended in, on the sides.

Some people try to turn back, their odometers

Not me, I want people to know "why" I look this way,

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LESLIE: Your hair sounds interesting. Can you post a closeup pix on your SPpage?


SHERIO: emoticon Glad you are eating well and exercising, etc. Miss you on SP, tho.

I agree that most women look better with their own natural hair color. Some colors make things worse!

I've thought about: http://nograyquickfix.com/nograyquickfix/i
ndex.html to just cover my gray hairs, but not every hair. Not sure what color I'd get. Looking for something like highlighting.



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Hi all!

I haven't been sparking on the teams much lately, but I'm trying to eat well and keep up my exercise.

I HAVE been dye-free since January 3rd, 2014. It has been interesting so far! I've got to say I am enjoying the freedom! Even though I've only got about 2 1/2 inches of natural hair, I'm liking it. It looks like I'll have face framing white highlights, and salt and pepper everywhere else. I'm really curious to see how it turns out!

To those on the fence, I say give it a try! I have joined a couple of going gray facebook groups and from the photos I've seen, EVERYONE looks better with their natural hair color! It's hard to see what you will end up with until all the dyed hair is cut off.

I'll change my profile picture so you can see my progress.

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I get my hair coloured a dark blonde, with blonde streaks, and a couple of thin black ones, to remind me, of my youth. emoticon I can't imagine going grey.

Some people try to turn back, their odometers

Not me, I want people to know "why" I look this way,

I've travelled a long way, and some of the roads weren't paved.
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Been thinking about this... a lot! It's that time. Too many gray hairs are showing up.

I've read that gray hair is becoming a fashion statement type thing. That not every woman can pull it off. I think it depends upon one's hair style and personality, etc.

What does that mean for me? Not sure... yet.

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I am thinking of going grey. I am lighter brown/blonde so it may not show to bad.

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I trimmed some of my hair while DH was watching.

I exclaimed, "Oh my, look at all that gray!"

He replied, "It doesn't show much."

He is prematurely gray. Get no sympathy from him!

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I started this thread, and I have flopped all over the issue, back and forth!

I dyed it a medium warm Brown in the spring...but had a allergic reaction, mild, but itchy and red for two weeks..the worst hair dye reaction yet. I react to lots of cosmetics, so the decision may be made! I don't think it's worth the discomfort, my dermatologist said it could cause my hair to fall out! So, no hair, or grey? Hmmm, think grey might work!

I did have the hairstylist put in highlights, to blend the grey more more about three weeks ago. They came out lighter than I expected! emoticon They are growing on on me, though I think I would like them a bit darker. As long as the dye isn't on my skin, I'm okay allergy-wise. So, we shall see. I will miss playing with my color... emoticon

Btw, Leslie, I think your color suits you!

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No grey for me..I look old enough as it is. lol. I was black haired, when I was young, but now dye my hair dark blonde with a few lighter streaks, and a couple skinny black, lo-lights.
If I looked good, it would be nice, to go natural...a lot less trouble. I do see the hairdresser for this stuff though. I'd never do this process at home..


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Coloring...another one of those emoticon

DH encourages me to "go natural" but as an older mom (51 w/ a 14 yr old dd) -- 2 of my 3 kids are always complementary and notice when I do color it after letting it go for 4-6 months. Since son #2 just graduated, I colored it (to my natural color w/ a non-permanent solution) a couple of weeks ago. I have to say it really does affect how I look agewise.

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I definitely agree that a lighter shade goes better on a person who used to be a dark brunette. Nothing looks worse than trying to dye ones hair to their original dark brown or black color, next to their aging skin which has gotten lighter as well. Just saying. I use the light golden brown, or lightest golden brown, or light auburn shades. Or, if ash brown is better with your skin tones, then go with that.

I do the same thing. When I see that mysterious old person in the mirror, I am compelled to dye my hair again! I'm not ready to go completely grey yet.

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My Mom is younger but same way LOL

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I'm off to get mine done on Friday, afternoon. My Mom at 85, is still a lighter blonde. She does go grey, once in awhile. She says when she sees that old lady in the mirror, she goes out and gets a 5 minute colour, at the hair dressers'.

Some people try to turn back, their odometers

Not me, I want people to know "why" I look this way,

I've travelled a long way, and some of the roads weren't paved.
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Touched up mine last night...but with a lighter shade...supposed to make transitioning to grey easier if you go a bit lighter each time...idk...also lighter is supposed to be a bit more flattering if you are a greying brunette...

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I'm off to get mine done this afternoon!

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I color. I, too, started see gray in my early 30's and that was when I started highlighting. Right now, my gray is most visible at my roots and it's not attractive. I've also lost my natural highlight which means that the gray just makes my face look dull. So, I now hide the gray and add a few highlights. Also, I'll add, my gray isn't the pretty white. If it ever gets to that, I'll be fine because I think it would brighten my face.

As others have said, go with what works for you and what you're comfortable with....

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I colored mine off and on for years since high school just for fun. A few years back, I realized that I hate the grow-out, and I can't afford to maintain it colored, so when I was really sick of a grown out perm(who knows why I had done that?!) and since it hadn't been colored in a while, I got all of the grown out perm cut off (yeah- I lost a lot of length) and I have left it alone since then. I get an enormous amount of compliments on my hair--I'm brunette, and I have lots of strands of white throughout. I have people ask me if I have it highlighted to look this way--many tell me it's just beautiful. I don't regret making this decision at all!
My mom was eventually even inspired to follow my example and has let hers transition to it's natural state. I'm not sure of the method she used...I think she eased into it with temporary colors till the grow-out was all gone--not sure.
It's definitely a personal choice, and I'm very happy with the one I've made.

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I am close to 51 and I have what I call dirty blonde now that I'm older - it lightens/brightens in the summer..I have tried both color and highlights - neither seen to appear natural enough to me - I prefer almost anyone with natural looking hair - it usually matches their eyebrows and skin tones best. My hair is getting quite a bit of what I call silver because each one has value in years and experience.

I had very short hair when I was heavier and now have let it grow out again after over 15 years. The grey/silver shows but does not bother me - it is part of who I am.

There is also the time and expense issue like everyone else mentioned - I have preferred things to do with time and money also.

FYI - I wear nice clothes, (no sweats or sloppy stuff), jewelry and makeup every day so don't think I am one who thinks beautifying yourself is not important - it is really about where you are happiest and the most comfortable.

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I am still debating this for my self! My husband is totally silver and has been for years. I am still mostly brown in the front though the back is getting silver. I am considering doing a henna rinse or temporary color to see if I like it. I hesitate because I don't like fussing with my hair and don't know if I would keep up with the roots. My mom at 80 is still half brown, half grey. My mom's mom though was a beautiful silver at my age. Dad has been white since his 40's! I don't know which way I will go.

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Amy, instead of biting the bullet and letting it go, you might want to try a reverse frost. In other words, frost only a portion of you hair with the henna and as time goes by, do a little less each time. Worth a try and it would make the transition easier for you.

I have mind professionally done and the cost isn't too bad where I go. I do a dark brown and then a red, red to the ends of my hair the last 5 mins. and I have great highlights. I used to be a dark auburn and it is lighter now which is better as one gets a little more "mature". There are lots of options for going grey again.

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Sheri, I support you 100%, but I won't go grey. Sorry, to vain

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I can't imagine myself with grey hair. I am 65, but not ready yet. I was a black haired girl, but at this age, that would never do. I am a dark blonde now, with lighter blonde streaks, and a couple very thin black low lights. It is very subtle. It is a lot of work, with the up keep, and if I thought I would look fine, I'd go natural. emoticon

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Thanks for sharing! Maybe we need a support team for women wanting to give grey a try!

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Hi Sheri. Sorry I missed your original question. I will add my 2 cents. I had medium-dark brown hair that started going grey early. The best colors that worked for me were the lighter brown dyes. I would go with the Light Golden Brown, or the Light Auburn. I got SO tired of what I call the skunk stripe when it would grow back....that, one day, I gave myself a buzz cut. Yep! Scary, I know! I had planned it and bought myself extra bandana's. Then, when I got brave enough, I wore it without the scarves. It was a no turning back decision. But, when my salt & pepper hair started to grow in...it was straight up for awhile...which gave me a fun look. I didn't even need any gel to make it go straight up. LOL. It gave me a clean slate, and I was determined to keep it natural....no more hair dye for me, I said. Well, it was all whiter than I expected.....more of the salt and less of the pepper. I got tired of looking at myself in the mirror with a washed out color. I went back to the hair dye. But, this time I went for the blonde colors. I always wanted to be a blonde. LOL. First, I went with the lightest blonde I could find. Then, I went with the darker blonde. It meant that when it grew back, the skunk stripe wasn't as stark a difference as it used to be. One stupid day (when I was in a hurry and not paying attention), I needed to dye my hair and saw I had an extra box on the shelf. I saw the B (for blonde, I assumed). But, it was a B for Brown, instead. It didn't say "Dark Blonde" as I thought. It said "Dark Golden Brown". ACK. I am back to the browns. What did I do as an emergency treatment?? I read online and used some dish-soap to try and strip some of the color out. It only helped a little. The thing is, I like seeing myself with the light golden brown colors better than the blondes. Blondes still make me feel washed out. I like seeing myself as a brunette again. I guess I will just make sure that I keep up with the coloring. I like coloring it myself. Both times I've paid the extra for someone to give me low lights, I have been disappointed that they didn't get it how I thought I described. It was the same hair stylist both times. Oh, she did a nice job....just not at all what I wanted. I have since changed hair stylists. It's so expensive to go to the salon for color, that I am going to keep doing it myself. Maybe someday I will splurge and get the fun low-lights that I'd really like to have done. But, Idk. I have a hard time thinking of splurging the $$$ for it.

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I sure appreciate everyone's response and honesty!

I am several weeks past my normal dye time...my goal right now is to get a couple of inches of undyed hair and see what colors I have! From what I have read here and elsewhere I think going a bit lighter and maybe more highlights could lengthen the time needed between colorings. I suspect this may be beyond my at home abilities! I hate to spend the money..but it might be worth it..especially while transitioning to all grey.

Thanks again everyone! Its good to see I am in good company!

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I have only had someone color my hair a few times mostly I have done it myself. I have mainly had short hair but a few times I have tried to grow it out but it gets down to shoulders or longer then I cut it. I am thinking it is about time to let it go and just let the grey some in. I know it will be hard to do it but maybe it is about time. My younger sister has been natural for as long as I can remember I think she has frosted a few times and that is it. I know with coloring for so long it will come in very dark and grey but I that is the way of it.

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I'm with you! I just hate dyeing my hair. It's been going on 6 years and I would love to stop. I use a natural product called henna, so there is nothing I can do, aside from just biting the bullet and quit coloring.

I have been looking at pretty head scarfs that could ease the transition.

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I will hit the BIG 50 this year and I have never dyed my hair. I do have a few gray strands but I really don't care. Some women have very beautiful gray hair and for me it will just be part of the process. We are all beautiful from the inside out and I do not want to waste any of my precious time sitting on a chair to change my hair color or cuts for that matter. (No offense to those who do)

I think my Gyno has the most beautiful long silver hair and she keeps it pulled back in a bun. I don't know, I think there is something distinguished about it and I see a woman who has life experience and strength when I see the gray. (Maybe I'm just weird, but I see acceptance and peace in the gray)

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I started seeing my first few gray hairs in my 30s and didn't want them, so that's when I started coloring. A few years ago I let the color grow out for a while, but I wasn't ready to embrace my new natural color. It wasn't so much the part that's gray but that what isn't gray has faded quite a bit from my original color. Now I'm close to turning 52 and my auburnish hair just started to look fake when I looked in the mirror. So, again I quit coloring it for a while to see what it would look like naturally. The gray is starting to look pretty good - I'm getting some streaks that function like highlights. So far, I'm okay with the rest of the color. My hair is longer now, so its taking what feels like forever to grow it out. I haven't colored it for more than a year and I've still got a couple of inches of color left to go.

My oldest sister, who is 63, still colors her hair but she's softened the color over the years. She's one of those people who started going gray from the top of her head. Now the natural color of the hair on top and down to about her ears is nearly white while the rest is still quite dark. She says that she'll quit coloring when its all one color. We both used one of the more natural hair dyes with fewer nasty chemicals. My other sister was the last to start coloring and I'm not sure how long she'll keep doing it, and she has her hairdresser do the color.

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Sheri, I began to grey at 19 and didn't do anything for several yrs. until people started to mistake me for my mom's sister. I started with a reverse frost and then went all the way. I have permanent color done once a month and those that knew me before and after told me I look 15-20 yrs. younger. I think it depends on your skin coloring, tone and lines. I worked with a gal who greyed as I did and the color was great on her. Think about what color the grey is (silver, white, dull) and then does it fit your face. Do you feel prettier and happy with the coloring or the grey? You are the one that be affected & happy with your choice.

Good luck in the decision making. just be happy with what you do!! emoticon emoticon

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I did not like the texture of my hair from dyeing it so I went grey a few years back. I cut my hair short and let it grow out. I love how soft it is. The majority of my grey is in the front and frames my face. I like the idea of frosting it.

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Stop doing it, save your money.
And buy yourself a hat!! emoticon

Seriously, tho. There's usually so many chemicals in the coloring that it can adversely affect hormones.

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I've frosted my hair since my teens.
I like frosting ecause the dye/bleach doesn't touch your scalp and the regrowth is less dramatic than with a shampoo in color.

Like Mamabug below, I find that now that there's white hair in the mix, my "root" regrowth is even less dramatic.

Ladies tend to go blonde when they get older, methinks because its a lot easier to maintain.

Sherio since you have dark hair, you might want to get an all over light frosting and see how that compares to your regrowth (roots).

Best of luck with this!
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I am 51 & I have just a few strands of white hair in my bangs so I leave them alone. My dad's mom had snow white hair at 45.

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I am age 50.

I started dyeing my hair almost 2 years ago, just prior to my daughter's wedding, and a couple of months before a 30 year reunion. I'd been beginning to go grey for quite a number of years, and, it just seemed like there was more and more grey in with my natural color.

I actually don't mind having a little bit of grey. It's age-appropriate for me, at this stage of life, and I think it looks more natural. So, I ask my hairdresser to do 1/3 highlights (lighter color), 1/3 lowlights ((that just means a darker than my natural color), and leave 1/3 natural.

I can get by with having it dyed just two or three times a year. It costs enough that cost is an issue for me; I'm not one who likes to spend a lot of money on myself.

When the grey roots start to grow in, I think they look less obviously like grey roots because there is additional grey in the rest of my hair. It's not a lot. In fact, you likely don't even notice it in my photos. (My April 2012 photo was taken 4 months after the most recent dye job.)

I'm not sure when, or if, I will discontinue dyeing my hair. If I do, I expect that I will go grey gradually, rather than quit cold-turkey, and, rather than dyeing it grey. I'll just have the hairdresser put in less and less color for a few times.

I decided that I worked really hard to lose weight for the two above-mentioned occasions (DD's wedding, and my reunion) because I wanted to look better. The regular dye jobs, now, seem like a "reward" to myself for losing the weight and maintaining my weight loss. I've been told, more than once, that I look 10 years younger. I expect that's a combination of losing weight, dyeing my hair, and updating my glasses frames.

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Keep the comments coming! I need the feedback.

My Mom quit coloring in her 30s. I thought she looked older especially at first. She is 72 now and all white...beautiful! But I remember people asking where she got her hair "Frosted "! She has a youthful face still...I am 52.. but often people say I look younger. I am the eldest of three girls and my cousins always think I am the baby. My sisters are blondes naturally and one colors one doesn't...and I don't see any grey on her head at 48! I started seeing a few Grey's in my late teens.

I have seen grey done beautifully...and not so well....groomed and with a current cut I think if looks fabulous!

I miss the days when I colored my hair for fun..to enhance and play. Now it feels like work! emoticon


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Thank you for this post and conversation. I appreciate reading others' views.

I am 52 and have never colored my hair. I don't even know what lowlights are! I'm not sure I want to start coloring now, however, I do not like what grey I have.

Of my two older sisters, one is allowing her natural color and she is all salt and pepper; and the other has been coloring her hair for many years. Our younger sister also colors her hair.

I tend to think grey hair is aging and that does not suit me now. However, grey hair done well can be very flattering. Not sure what to do either!

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I have been coloring since mid 20s I am mid 40s now LOL. I have been all shades of reds and browns. I was a dirty/dark blonde the last my true color was in. Red takes well but it fades. Grey/roots come back in 2 weeks so I am really trying to decide also.

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I'm choosing to color. My younger sister has chosen to go natural. Everyone thinks she's the older one.

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Hi SHERIO5,
I have in the past colored my hair, but it does not last to long.

It's got to the point for me that my hair color is well me, if I do color it it's just for fun.

Good luck to you.


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Sheri, this is a good question. My sister is natural and almost white. I refuse to look like her so I dye what was my natural color when I was younger. In the summer I put in highlights. I tried putting in red low lights, but they didn't last more than two weeks. I liked the way it looked but it wasn't worth it for the short time it lasted. My hair just didn't really take the red.
The different blondes were fine. Good luck!

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I hope this isn't too frivolous, but I have been debating this issue ever since my monthly dye jobs at home seem to be turning into every three weeks! I am mostly convinced its time to stop the madness and give myself over to my natural color..whatever it truly is!

So, what are your thoughts on going grey? Is it ageing? Is there a magic ratio of grey to non -grey hair that looks better? If you stopped dyeing..cold turkey? Highlights? Low lights? What did you do to ease into it if anything?

I would enjoy some feedback! Thanks!

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