PETSINSTYLE2007, I'm sorry to hear whats happening with you. I just want to say to take care of yourself, so you will be able to deal with the other things that are not always in our control. Take help when you can, and stay strong. And I will be praying for you.
Sincerly, -SnowYoga~ Moya Southwest MO. Central time zone Loving snow & looking for Balance!
current weight: 248.0
Fitness Minutes: (295) Posts: 563 8/18/12 3:48 P
PETSINSTYLE2007, maybe it would be a good idea if you could see a doctor and explain what is going on in your life and maybe they could help guide you in controlling your daughter. It helped me with my oldest son who became very resentful of me and was always saying how much he hated me and the life I gave him. Now I know how to control what is happening by how I act to everything he does and he has learned to control his anger around me. I pray for you and your daughter that things will work out.
I would like to lose at least 25 to 30 pounds by November for my nieces wedding.
current weight: 179.0
Fitness Minutes: (186,640) Posts: 45,159 8/16/12 1:32 P
well it is time for me to write on week 3. i took 2 weeks to do week 3 but i think i needed the time. after looking abck i found out what my real stresser is and im still trying to find out a good way to deal with the stress. my stress i have found is my pre teen daughter. she been going at me sents she was 8. she just mad at the world. i took her to docs and they cant seem to get her to talk to them she says nothing is wrong but then she comes home and seems to be mad at the world. i cant seem to figer her out or why she is so mad. she dose several things to stress me she will steall money from me. she will get in other peoples stuff in the house and take it. she hits her brother who is autistic. she will try to hit my girl friend " my girl friend is supper sick and is under doc care." . all this starts from the time my daughter gets up and she dont stop tell my daughter gose to bed. i feel like im the blocking person. i block her from my son, i block her from my girlfriend. any thing to try to keep the peace. and doing so i get more and more stress. i tell my daughter counselors what my daughter is doing and they tell me that she will change it just takes time. i tell them she been this way sents 8 and she is 13 now how much time she need. then i remind them that in about 4 years she truns 18 then what she going to then. take her anger out on the world. so this week my mom in law said she will take my daughter for a few weeks to give me some time to take care of my son and my girlfriend. so this week has been a lot less stress full. i still have the doc apoments with my girlfriend and my son still is well my son and i would change his unique ness in any way. i am still doing my walking " but i dont get out of that my dog would have a fit if she didnt walk everyday" im just scared for the day my daughter comes home. i have done it before that she goses and stays with someone a week or so and then comes home. and for the frist few days she like a defent child . then after day to she starts all over again. i just dont know how to show her the way or if there is something diffent i can do. but for the time i will enjoy the less stress and relax a little.
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