Ugh, I remember your original story well because it made me really feel for you.
As far as your second experience--I have gone through this twice. I went through it twice last year. In Dec 2011 and then again in Sept 2012 my baby stopped growing around 6 weeks. I went in for appts at 8 and 9 1/2 wks, respectively, for each pregnancy and didn't think anything was wrong. My body also didn't want to MC on its own:( I ended up having 2 D&Cs because I just wanted it to be over with.
After all this, I ended up at this well-known fertility center in my town. They tested me for absolutely everything and found several things that they could treat me for. I'm on Metformin for PCOS (even though I never had irregular cycles and we've had zero issues conceiving), I am on a low dose Synthroid because of my short personal and extensive family history of thyroid disorders, I'm on a baby aspirin because of 1 copy of a gene mutation I carry that can cause clotting disorders, I went on progesterone at 3DPO, as well as Lovenox injections at that time (again, for the clotting risk) and as soon as my pregnancy was confirmed, I started taking HCG injections every 3 days (to keep my levels high).
I'm not sure if you've had all this testing done that I had done last year, but hopefully your doctor will be willing to do all sorts of testing. Clotting disorders (you can carry several different gene mutations for these), can most certainly cause early and late term MCs. There are also a SLEW of other genetic tests I had done (like CF, Fragile X, Spinal Muscular Atrophy, Antinuclear Antibodies, Natural Killer Cell, Lupus or Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome, DRVVT--which is how they found out about my gene mutation that gives me the clotting disorder risk, etc etc.)
After all was said and done, they took about 15 vials of blood from me.
I wish I could give you some hope right now because I know EXACTLY how you're feeling about your current loss--if that's what it is:( I cannot imagine going through your previous loss and I will keep you in my prayers for all that you're going through.
Feel free to reach out to me anytime, for support. I have to say, I wouldn't (and our marriage wouldn't) have made it through last year without therapy. A good therapist can do wonders. Please hang in there, be kind to yourself and let yourself heal, and remember that there are so many others out there that have been through similar experiences.
Edited by: GIGERNREZNOR at: 1/21/2013 (08:41)