I don't know where everyone is, but I imagine some lurk, some don't use the sight and some might not be involved with the team anymore. I haven't been involved for a long time.
There is nothing wrong with being in our 40s! I am 44 now and enjoy life. My kids are in 10th and 7th grade, so I know that they won't be home too many more years. I am busy going to all their activities, working, and helping my husband on our farm. Life is short, you never know what the next day will bring, so we need to tell our families we love them and enjoy our times with family and friends!
Success is just around the corner for the person who refuses to quit.
Everything is permissible - but not everything is beneficial (1 Corinthians 10:23)