My boys will always know that they are #1 in my life! If they call, I drop what I'm doing, when I've been @ work, I let the boss know, my kids come 1st. I alway have told them that they can do & be whatever they want & I believe it. I never put them down & I NEVER scolded/repremanded them in public!
The most important thing: I tell them I love them & hug them ALL of the time, no matter how old. And to this day @ 21 & 23 we always say "I love you", it's important to me that my kids ALWAYS know in words & actions that I love them. Sometimes it's the small things, my son is coming home for a couple of days, I'm making banana bread for him or the big things, my oldest was 70 miles away & broke his nose, a couple days after surjury (ofcourse, I was there), he called & asked me to come get him & bring him home so he could relax, I took the afternoon off, got in the car & was there! And they know, no matter how far, I alway will be. I don't complain about it or ever bring it up, I just do it. I'm not a perfect mom, I make mistakes, but my boys know that I love them & they are #1!
:) GO COLORADO ROCKIES!!! UR#1
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