I know, it's so hard, isn't it!?! And just like Jeni said, this isn't going to be what you want to hear but...some people think women's bodies hold on to their "baby fat" after they have a baby to nourish the baby in case of famine, etc.
I know it's hard but your best bet is to try not to think about the negative (i.e., feeling like you're never going to lose weight, being unhappy with your body) and focus your thoughts on the positive (being proud of yourself for making healthy food choices for you and your baby, working out whenever you can and loving on that beautiful new baby of yours!!). That will keep you in the right frame of mind for losing weight because, believe me, if I've learned ANYTHING about losing weight, it's that stress causes you to hold on to your extra weight more than anything (thanks to The Biggest Loser's Bob & Jillian for that little piece of info).
So, hang in there, be strong and come here for support whenever you need it because we know exactly what you're going through!
** Mary Jane **
"If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ Peace Pilgrim
| current weight: 166.6