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7/19/07 4:56 P

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That plus the increasing stress levels. Stress kills.

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7/19/07 1:58 P

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I cant help wonder if the environment has something to do with all these miscarriages,it seems like there are more and more these years

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7/19/07 1:38 P

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Yeah. She's pretty much hiding out in their apartment. We were really surprised (and happy) that they came to family dinner on Monday. She even held my niece on her lap. Last week she didn't even want to see them. But, she WILL be okay in time. It will never go completely away, but she'll learn how to cope with the feelings. My mom had six miscarriages. My other SIL had 2. And I had one.

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7/18/07 9:53 P

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Yes she maybe so fragile right now that she may not be able to cope with losing anymore

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7/18/07 9:50 P

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I don't know. She went in for blood work today. She doesn't think she's passed all of the fetus. Which means she's going to need a D & C...I really don't want that doctor to touch her. I'm worried, but, I don't know what else to do except be there for her and my brother. They've decided to go for the genetic testing to see if there's something wrong genetically preventing them from carrying to full term...but, I have a friend who does custom engineered vitamin/mineral/herbal compounds that helped another friend of ours who had four miscarriages. When she takes the compound she carries to full term...beautiful, healthy babies, when she doesn't take it, she loses them within the first 4 months....we're trying to talk Brenda into at least meeting with Bruce. But it has to be her choice...it's her body and her emotions at stake.

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7/14/07 1:54 A

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yes....... it must have been agony.

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7/14/07 12:05 A

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Wow, that is horrible! I wonder what the doctors reason for that was? Also, how did she function with a bladder infection for that long?

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7/12/07 8:49 P

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Seems so strange that he would not treat an infection like that. Antibiotics wouldnt harm the baby.

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7/12/07 5:26 P

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Shari,

I have agree with you about finding a new doctor. It is SO important to have the best possible everything whenwe are carrying that little life. More so when things are as fragile as they are for your sister.

Please know that ALL of you are still in my prayers.

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7/12/07 4:52 P

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Thank you both. It has been a very difficult week as the baby died, but has yet to be "born". She just wants it to be over with so she can go get the genetic testing done to try to figure out why this keeps happening. Sadly, we think the doctor is at fault with this one. He allowed her to go for a week and a half with a bladder infection without treating it. We're encouraging her to find a better doctor. One who will take better care of her and help her to carry a child to term.

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7/4/07 1:14 A

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So sorry to hear that she lost the baby again, cant imagine how hard that is on her. Please tell her she is in our prayers

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7/3/07 3:56 A

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Shari,
Please accept our condolences from the team to you & you brother & his wife. It is so tragic to lose a little life like that. It is a very difficult time for all. Let them know that we are all thinking of them & praying that they will feel peaceful about the whole ordeal.

Lots of love to you & all your family.
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