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2/26/13 4:34 A

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A guy would have to be really nitpicky to have a problem with a "fluffy" vagina. I say, if you're getting vagina at all, shut the hell up. There are starving children in Africa, my friends.

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9/27/10 8:02 P

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haha o my.. I thought I was the only person worried about that! Thanks for the post!

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Ok so usually I just read all the posts but I just had to add to this one...since its sooooo true!!! haha!! I have a friend that lovingly refers to the v-flab as a "flupa" (pronounced floo-pah) lol....beyond hilarious!! SO I always tell her I'm losing the flab and flupa!! hahaha!!



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I know I'm gettin' in on this late but... I always thought having a fat p***y was a good thing. Gives ya some nice cushioning for when the going gets rough? emoticon

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9/23/10 5:28 A

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I LOVE IT!! Weight loss just got more interesting!!

What others think of me is really not my business!!

The hardest part is getting your trainers on.....the rest is easy!


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From a guys point of view I 100% agree that the size thing has never been a issue(keeagles are nice however). Issues I have thought about but of course never said was booty too big and her after baby belly...of course I dont tell her that..but vagina fatness....um no never even considered it ..ever...

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When my wife makes my lunch I just take it and eat it. So have you tried making him a healthy lunch and have it ready for him..example 2 turkey sandwiches ,carrots (just a few) bagged , a cookie and some baked chips? The lemonade probably wont kill him. emoticon You could secretly help him lose hehe

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2/18/10 2:34 P

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We are definitely our own worst critics! I just have to say though-it's not your vagina that's fat! I assume you're talking about your mons area. Your vagina is inside. If that was fat...it'd be more cushiony. ;)



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2/8/10 2:27 P

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I also want to add on this topic that I don't know if it's posted below but for men for every 30 pounds you lose you will gain an inch back down there. I heard this on the radio because the DJ was going through his own little workout BL thing and he was keeping track....LOL.

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2/7/10 7:36 P

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Kim- I've learned from years of school..whenever there is a question there are at least 5-10 other people with that same question or more. Also like the guy stated as long as they (men) have access they don't care what size the vagina is. We (women) are our worst critics- he wont know if we don't point it out to him. Keep up the awesome weight loss and keep asking questions everybody. emoticon

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there are few threads that i am actually compelled to read through. this one is probably the most entertaining and informative one i've found. goodness there are some funny people on here.

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Love that this team is so real. Here is to what we're all really thinking/wondering and the fun support from SP!

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Oh, I am so glad I found this thread. I totally know what you are talking about. Ugh. I can't wait to be skinny... um... all over the place.

"As you know, we intellectuals are inordinately fond of enclosing ourselves in small places." - The Professor, The Ladykillers

But you have to be small to do it! I'll get there someday...


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1/4/10 6:24 P

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Wow,
I thought this team was about how to look better naked not how fat your vajay-jay was/is. That's an eye opener for sure. lol

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1/4/10 11:23 A

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Ok, so i started this thread a long time ago!! I was looking over my past threads and blogs, and found this one!! I did not think it would be such a hit!! There are so many feelings, questions, concerns, and insecurities that we all have but do not think other people have. In actuality we have have the same feelings, questions, concerns, and insecurities; and that is what we came to Spark for! To get support and answers to our most deepest feelings that we could never talk about to anyone else in person.
So to everyone, I say read this thread, comment if you feel the need, and start a new thread of your own revealing your deepest darkest feelings. i promise it will make you feel better to know that you are not the only one with those feelings! emoticon

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10/26/09 1:46 P

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Fascinating thread. My wife and I have talked about this and we're both trying to lose a bit of our pads. :)

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson


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9/19/09 10:47 P

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Have not noticed any difference till now !!

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both times when I was prego I noticed a little more padding as you might call it ...... but now it is back to normal LOL


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Just wanted to say that this thread is awesome and you all are rockstars!
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Mine used to be much slimmer.
So I guess it does affect it.

The main thing I'm looking forward to is thinning my thighs and now my vagina, so I use less wax and it takes less time!

But thank you for all your honesty and I really liked reading this thread, I was laughing so much at all the men who are self-conscious! emoticon

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"A bony vagina is just gross, and it looks so wrong!" Genevieve, that had better be a joke. Bony vaginas? Gimme a break. I think as long as there's a willing hole, most guys will oblige willingly.

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Snap a picture because I am a two-time successful baby-weight veteran!! Now, if I could only become a cannelloni and garlic knot veteran ....


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I've been reading up on this thread and frankly it is hilarious, funny, a little sexy, kinky and weird. It's hard to take it serious.

Here is one item I can add, take it for what it is worth - I was involved with one woman many moons ago who was very self conscious because one of her labia major was larger on one side than the other by double. She asked me if I cared or thought it was weird. Until she said something I never even noticed. The moral of the story - guys don't care!!!! As long as we have access we are happy. The same thing happened to me with a woman who had one breast that was a B and the other a D cup. Until she said something I didn't even notice - I was just happy to have access.

Moral of the story - woman are their own worst critics. Just give your man as much access as they require and you will be their godess regardless of your quirks!

Just love yourself and he will love you!

If you fail to plan then plan to fail!

So plan your workouts and meals in advance.


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On the subject of "manscaping" my husband is very good about doing that. He keeps his nose hairs trimmed and about once every other week or so he has me trim the hair on his back,it's not a lot just some hairs that grow a little long.
I am very self conscious about how I look naked. He doesn't seem to mind and likes to have the lights on.I wish I could be more confident even at my present weight.
My husband was the first person I was ever with sexually and I was his first so I'm not really sure if I'm fat there or not (I probably am even though I can't see it over my belly).

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3/27/08 11:50 A

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Ok so I WISH I was on this team in June of 07! I didnt join this team until later...very funny thread!

I will have to say that I always thought that I was 'chubby' down there, and I always felt awkward in bathing suits, I think I may have a larger bone down there or something...LOL....but it will be interesting to see if I lose some chubbage down there...

On another note, I dont get uncomfortable having sex with my fiance, I used to think, OMG he thinks im SOOOO fat..but honestly, I know he loves me and every bit of me, so I know hes not thinking about that...Hes even told me to let loose and not care what is jiggling or hanging off or anything..that he does not think of me that way and loves me for who I am. Just think, if he thought those things, he wouldnt be having sex with you right?

Great thread!

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Ok. After having four kids, I've noticed what weight gain and weight loss does affect to the pelvic area when it comes to fat.

And actually, it my husband who told me that if he lost weight, "it" would look longer. I was telling him he was fine the way he was and that he didn't have to lose weight when he said that. I had never known that, but it makes perfect sense.

I also agree with a previous poster that being too bony down there isn't comfortable either. I think a nice balance of the right about of fat is ideal.

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3/27/08 8:58 A

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What a great thread for a thursday morning right before my long work out... I love it. I love the honesty of this group and how people just put it out there.... I guess you could call it the naked truth...lol.
As for chubby ginas..... I have noticed after three children I have some padding down there and yes I dislike it so very much. I will say that there has been a diference now that I have lost some of the weight. Even the bedroom arobics have gotten better but that may because I traded in for a younger more youthful arobic partner...lol. I am always self concious about my jiggles in the bedroom... I don't like to jiggle or wiggle.... He loves lights on and he s very visual... he asked for a strip dance for valentines day and I worked and worked and worked but I still wasn't comfortable enough to do it and chickened out last minute. He doesn't get it, but he is very supportive and now wants it as a wedding gift .... lol we are getting married in september so I have until then to find myself under my fat pads...lol

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They say life is a dance... well protien shakes up to my tae bo waltz......

I am going to jump, punch, squat, and wiggle the jiggles away!!!!!


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3/27/08 7:39 A

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Im not sure if someones already said it... BUT

You NEED some CUSHION for the PUSHIN! A bony vagina is just gross, and it looks so wrong!

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I know I've noticed a huge difference after alot of weight loss, and I'm sure you will too!

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wow! I just read all the posts in this thread and if it wouldn't be awkward to explain it to my roommate I would literally be laughing out loud right now. I have done quite a bit of giggling!

It's good to find a sparkteam that has no problem with provacative topics like chubby lady parts!

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Very Interesting!

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Wow, wish I'd known about sp back in '07! I noticed the extra fat there too but wasn't sure if it was just my imagination from feeling fat.

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just bumping this up to the top of the list.

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LOL! about the "hiding" muscles... I have those too!
I can feel my abs... they ARE there, and they are starting to show up, getting stronger by the day... but right now I tell friends that they are still in bed, hiding under the comforter!

At least that's better than last year when I jokingly "explained" to friends that I DID actually HAVE a 6 pack.... but that no one had told me not to open all the bottles and pour them all together!!! (hence my jiggly wiggly belly rather than the look of a Corrugated row of bottles or cans).
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You will look great Tobobear! Its also refreshing that you manscape. Most men are weary of that. I think I married my husband just because he isn't afraid of grooming.

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LOL @ chest toupee

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I put up a current pic.

The Mangy Chewbacca refers to the fact my chest and back hair is not uniform, I have patches of hair instead of an even coat. So I will have to wax or shave to get rid of the hair, since I won't be doing hair implants or a chest toupee.

Actually now that I see the pic, I realize I do have quite a bit of muscle hiding under the fat.

I just have to lose the fat and I will look really good.

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I like the term "chubby gina" too!

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Mangey Chewbacca...too funny. btw, Tobo, since you have no pics, all we have is our imaginations when you give us descriptions like that. lol

on the clothes/no clothes thing, since I am curvy, if I wear stuff that is not fitted, I just look big. I actually am most confident with just a little bit of clothes..ie bathing suit or shorts & tank.

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Man I been busy far too long lol..got alot of catching up to do!I think I spent all morning reading this thread! Its 9 am and Im laughing my @$$ off, how unnatural is that! (Im so NOT a morning person)With a lil glass of OJ....cheers to all the chubby 'gina's out there! :P

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about looking good in clothes: I love Spanks. With Spanks, I look great in clothes. Its only when I'm naked that I can see stretch marks, dimples, cellulite, etc. Its not severe, but I notice it. I think the reason that i'm not super motivated to work out is because I don't really look that bad in clothing. When stuff starts to not fit me anymore, then I'm more motivated to work out, etc. Good question!

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Mangey Chewbacca!!!! Love it.


I just got married and so people have been sending us gifts. One of the gifts I got is a pole. Yes, a pole. I'm actually considering taking a pole dancing class. Anyone done it?

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I just popped onto Amazon.com,

They have a variety of books and dvds about how to either use "naked workouts" to get fit, or fitness exercises to have better "naked workouts. There is a variety, some dieting books, some men's workout stuff, some yoga, etc....

These might get men to workout.

Also the movie "Supersize Me" might help to get guys to exercise. By documenting how a guy feels by eating all junk food and how his body goes wonky is useful. There is a small segment where the film crew is interviewing his girlfriend. She uses phrases like "he can't keep up", "he tires easily", "I have to be on top a lot", etc.... If you wanted to watch it with a hubby or boyfriend, you can use the fact that you are dieting and thus want to see the movie, without having to disclose why you really want to watch the movie with him.

On the looking good in clothes, I do look okay in clothes, but I need to look better naked. I look like a Mangey Chewbacca I need to do some manscaping before I look good naked. A tan and shave would help me a lot.



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Here's another thing I was pondering: we all want to look better naked, but what do you think of yourself with clothes? I look ok in clothes. A bit broard across the bum but ok, passable. So I look at myself before I leave the house each day and think yeah, I'm ok, I'm happy with this. It's only when I look at the naked me in the mirror when all the bumps and bulges are on display that I think ugh!! Get it off me!! How do you continue taht when you are just about acceptable in clothes? Do any of you find this?

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I was pondering this thread today while out for a walk, and remembered another thing I was going to mention...someone said to enjoy time ("Time") with your hubby as an extra cardio session. Well, I read about a woman who lost massive pounds with exercise like that, then wrote the book sexercise. I kid you not!!:) It has all the different positions to work different muscles, I'm not sure what else, haven't got it but certainly sounded interesting. Bet that'd get some men working out, lol.

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Catalya I feel for you! That sounds like the unhealthiest lunch! Your little girls are so beautiful. Maybe you can approach his weight gain from a health perspective and ask him to ensure that he can be healthy to see his girls grow up and join in their lives.

Its hard for me to critisize (spelling?) my hubby's eating because hes a nutritionist by trade and a wellness coordinator! He eats amazing most of the time but does cheat way too often to qualify for weight loss.

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My hubby started out trying to sabotage me, then we had the talk that I'm doing this for ME and I don't expect him to do it with me if HE doesn't want to. Now he's very supportive, loves the comments I get, watches the girls so I can go out for my run in the mornings before work, etc. But I've definitely noticed that his belly and extra fat down there are making a difference. Even with my weight loss, there is a definite difference when it comes to sex. And I watched him leave for work this morning with 3 big ham sandwiches loaded, a bag of chips, and a half gallon of lemonade. I just wish he would want to get back to his self without me telling him or nagging him! He's perfectly happy with where he is and rolls his eyes when even his mom comments about the weight he's put on!!!

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You guys are outstanding...I'd just like to join the group who can see it LOL Soooo I guess that gives me something else to track. Husbands currently on deployment and working out on a daily basis. Can't wait for the return now!!! You know I had fleeting thoughts about fat in that region but now that this topic has come up I know it's true...First goal lose some belly flab so that I don't have to lift it up to see it and Second reduce the fat in the nether region. I'll definitely keep you posted. Hopefully both problem areas will be corrected before he returns sometime in August.
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6/24/07 10:56 P

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Ksethi, glad your talk went well...I've been there with the lack of support...
Tobobear...you crack me up...I guess you have figured out which team is the best.
Kim...I hope you made it through the weekend ok.
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Ok guys, I talked to him today. I practically used all of your words actually. Hubby admits feeling like if I work out that he may be forced to as well.. kinda like I won't want to be with him if I'm trim and fit and he's got a bit of flab. He also admits being perfectly happy with his size and is trying hard to maintain his weight, not lose any. I agree that he's perfect. I don't think he needs to lose weight at all but I do need him to help me maintain my ideal weight as well. Overall, a great talk! Led to great bedroom aerobics!

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I haven't been on this thread in a few days.

I am happy for all of you who have been able to get your hubby or boyfriends to work out to increase "length".

One way to help determine how much "length" they could get from losing weight is to simply feel the fat pad.

The base of the penis rests on the pubic bone, feel the overlying fat pad (basically feel at the base for the hard bone and get an idea of how much padding there is in between the skin and the bone).

If a man lost weight, that fat pad would go away with the fat on the rest of their body and no longer detract from exterior length.

Since there is usually no fat in the penis itself, losing weight will not shrink it, or make it narrower.

Just two minor notes:
1-Most statistics on women's preferences point to the fact that a majority of women don't care as much about length as they do about "girth", but men have a much higher percentage who would like to have more "length". So for a woman trying to motivate her man, it may not matter to you, but it is a driving force for men.

2- On a different SP message board, a woman had asked how to motivate her man to exercise and lose weight. I replied with a recommendation of tactfully mentioning something like "lose weight get more". The response to my post there was completely opposite from the response here. The response here is that the guys are hitting the gym, the response there is that such a thing is "the ultimate nag". So in the future I will keep my posts of this type to the "look better naked" crowd.

Good luck, I hope the men catch on and look longer naked.



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Go for a bath or big long shower to destress and distract you until you don't want the food? Have a big bath, give yourself a mini facial (a half and half mix of sugar and honey is the best face scrub!!!), moisturise yourself afterwards...you'll feel gorgeous and maybe less inclined to eat? You can do it, you're going well so keep that goal in sight:)

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Will one Miller Lite do the trick instead of all of those things you listed?

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