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3/18/13 11:42 P

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WE USED TO DO IT EVERY DAY UNTIL I HAD MY STROKE IN 2005 NOW ITS MAYBE 4 TO 5 TIMES A MONTH AND ITS MY FAULT. i AM SO DRY AND LUBRICANTS WORK BUT IT STILL HURTS AND I HAVE NO SEX DRIVE AT ALL.I WOULD DO ANYTHING TO HAVE AN ORGASM. MY HUSBAND IS VERY CARING BUT THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH HIM SO i AM SURE HE'S FRUSTRATED WHEN HE HEARS THE FREQUENT NO FROM ME.IF ANYONE HAS A SUGGESTION LET ME KNOW.I WANT A SEX DRIVE BACK!!!!!

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3/14/13 4:19 P

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Part of Shirley's reply,"When my HB was alive we had sex almost daily until he got cancer and died at 62.Guess we definitely weren't average."

When you have God in your life your life is anything but average wouldn't ya say? When I got serious with God, when I started to make some real changes in my life, and the amount of time which I spent with him, I am talking about making God part of your lifestyle,and changing my ways into God's ways, my life completely began to change! I started REALLY living life to the fullest because Jesus was centered within me. Hey I have been in really bad pain since December 2012. Now, I have chronic pain due to having a nerve condition called Nueropathy, so I am used to pain ya know. But this pain I have been experiencing goes far above that awful nerve pain! (I think my doctor is going to tell me I have Pancreatitis) But you know what? I have peace and joy in my life!!! emoticon There is nothing I would change about my life, and God has brought me to this point. I praise and life up God because I used to live within a sexless marriage for many years. From the outside it looked like we had the perfect marriage, but month would go by without it! Now, we were intimate, and we were always cuddling just like now. We did mess around sometimes but no sex of any kind. I t was hard man! I cried and prayed at times, and my husband and I would pray to God together about it. Years passed and nothing changed. However, i knew what I had with my husband went beyond sex, I mean don't we all! We held hands and etch other throughout the day. My husband comes home and spends real time with me, I mean it has never changed. What we have together was a gift from God, but the devil know how high my sex drive is and he tried for 9 years to damage and separate us.

I want you to know that there is no area of your life that God does not want to be a part of. if you are having any sexual issues within your marriage pray to God about it and pray together as a couple. After a few years when things did not change, in fact it got even worse, I will admit some years I was like, well I guess God just doesn't want us to have sex any more, but that was the devil whispering into my ear, and I believe him!

I tell you what, if you rely on God even during times of unbelief He will pull through and change your situation. I am being real with you, are you there with me? man when God did change lack of sex life, when He fixed the problem, it was like our sex life was made brand new! It was like the first time we had sex, but 2,000 times BETTER!!! That is the love of God and that is God's blessing. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. These last four and half years have been some of the most rewarding sex I have had in my entire life, and yes with my husband! I know what i had before I was married, so what I wrote says a lot trust me.

So let me just close with a thanksgiving prayer to God.

God you know what you did with my marriage, and you know I did not deserve it. How could I ever repay your fore what you have done with my entire life? Lord you are my best friend. I praise you and lift you up! I will share my story as intimate as it is, I will shout it out loud to praise you and bring glory to you. God, I know there are people on this team who are struggling with their sex lives. I ask you to help them. I ask you to make it known to their heart that you are with them as they suffer in their pain. God you can do anything. You can heal our deepest wounds, and our biggest deficiency. God in your name I stand in agreement with my words, you will heal the sexual issues within my team member's lives who need it. In Jesus name I pray amen.

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Regarding my pain and current health issues. I am not sure if I have Pancreatitis or not. I just went to the doctor again this past Tuesday. I am having more blood work done. When I go back to the doctor he will recommend in Internist to see and we will go from thee. I am grateful that God has given me such a good doctor. He knows how serious this is and wants to get to the bottom of this. Acute pancreatitis is associated with excessive alcohol drinking and gallstones about 80% of the time in the U.S. Gallstone Pancreatitis an impacted gallstone blocks the ducts that drain the pancreas. Inflammation of the pancreas results, a serious condition. In my case it would have to be due to having gallstones. I just had gallbladder surgery January 18th of this year. I love my life and it is full of peace. I just have to walk through this, which is easy fro me because God is holding my hand! emoticon It is His love that I feel more than the pain although I am in extremely bad pain every day to a day in a half.

Edited by: GLITTERGIRL69 at: 3/14/2013 (18:20)
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3/14/13 1:15 P

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Average changes depending on where you are in life. With babies, not as often as when you are empty nesters.

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3/14/13 12:43 P

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Could be on average but I've been a widow over 30 years.No sex singles shouldn't have sex according to scripture.When my HB was alive we had sex almost daily until he got cancer and died at 62.Guess we definetly weren't average. emoticon

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3/14/13 12:37 P

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I would say as often as they feel like it.Now I'll read your link and see what it says. emoticon

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3/14/13 6:49 A

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emoticon How often do married people have sex? emoticon

click the link to find out:

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