First off, I have the utmost respect for you because you have integrity. You want to tell the person you care about that you are HIV positive. Personally, you should have told him when you were intimate the first time. Perhaps you had your reasons....and that's fine!
Truthfully speaking, are you hesitant to tell him because your afraid he would leave? Have you conquered living with HIV or has it conquered you? Have no fear or shame!! If he continues to care about you then it would not matter. Yes he will be shaken up (or maybe not) but you have to free yourself by opening up to him. The setting, mood, or 'right timing' does not exist. However, ask him what does know about HIV/AIDS? Does he know anyone infected? Slowly wheel him in and tell him!
Please let me know how it turns out!
I'm more than a conquerer!
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