I hope this topic helps more people find a place to post.
I'm grieving and frantically trying to fix all the unfinished financial business, since we had no idea Michael would die so quickly. I guess this is a word to the wise: don't put off making a will, or putting things into your trust, and do it properly. I'm paying a few thousand dollars for a probate lawyer's help. The banks have frozen his accounts, and the electronic withdrawals are being refused, so I'm getting warning letters from mortgage, utilities, etc. I think there is time to fix that, with help of the lawyer.
The other thing Michael left me that I want to pass on, is a booklet with all his usernames, passwords, etc. He did his banking, shopping, etc., etc. on line, plus still getting emails from his work and warning emails for unpaid bills. If I couldn't get into his email, I can't imagine what would happen.
Maybe Maggie could take over posting the "new topic" for each month? She seems very active and consistent. If you want to keep the monthly thing going, that is.
Not doing well at Spark; still so busy and freaked out about survival needs. Prayer is really helpful. TAB I don't think this is a good place for me to post as a person who's lost their loved one to cancer. I'll find another group so I don[t depress folks.
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