GranKat, Welcome!!!! I do think that you are wonderful grandparents!!!! This is a difficult task, as I have been telling my children who are grown that it is more difficult the older that your children are, as a parent you always worry and when things do not go well with them you always try to be there for them and then you are given grandchildren and the worrying goes on and on. But you are terrific to take on this, I do think if it were necessary that my husband and I would make the same choice. You are special grandparents, your grandchildren are very blessed. Blessings, Diana
Baby steps, one at a time, and you will achieve your goals. Never, Never give up.