I totally agree with Scotty. A PRIEST friend, of all people, told me the same thing. Most of the sexual turn on begins in my head. I don't necessarily consider myself romantic, but I do need my husband to talk to me certain ways... other than "ya want to?" I need to feel sexy...even though I have a hard time feeling that way myself. I need to know he wants ME, not just that part of me.
I am the one with a STRONG labido. He could care less, which even if its true, it hurts more than he'll pay attention to. I prayed many times for that part of me to go away. I hated feeling rejected, even it wasn't intentional. Then, one of these medicines that my dr. put me on decreased my desire. It was like heaven...until now. All of a sudden OTHER men are flirting with me and looking at me as if I was nice looking. Not that I will step across that line, but something simple as that look and the small amount of flirting has brought back that part of me..... I started crying because I thought I'd never have to worry about it again....
I'm sorry for just venting, but this is a sensitive subject for me too. I believe with all my heart, that it's what's in my head along with some physical stuff. (I had a hysterectomy a year ago)
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