welcome to Spark!! And good luck with the 40 pounds. I want to lose about the same but just keep making smaller goals. Right now the goal is 15 and I am down 4 lbs!! sure it is not much but it all adds up.
And i hear you about the legs rubbin! sometimes a girl just wants to wear a skirt without chaffing!
Anyways just want to welcome you here!
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