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9/30/13 10:13 P

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Yeah I feel lonely. Growing up, my mom and dad got divorced when I was real little and over the years my mom could not be alone. she dated every body she could. she wasn't happy staying home with her kids. I haven't dated at all in the last 9 years. I feel like crying sometimes. I wish I could find a man who will love my daughter as much as he loves me. Don't think he is out there so I don't bother looking.

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8/7/13 10:58 A

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Definitely. Mostly, I'm incredibly busy with working full time and raising my 6 1/2 yr old, but at the end of the day, after I get my daughter in bed, I feel it.
I miss having someone to talk to about my day (an adult!) and to vent to or to bounce ideas off.
What I do about it...right now, I'm trying to fill that after-daughter-goes-to-bed time with more exercise! :)

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5/18/13 10:12 A

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All the time.. I love my children and would never trade them for anything.. but its just not the same as that special someone that you can share everything with.


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2/26/13 5:48 P

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AMEN!!!

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2/25/13 12:49 P

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I want someone who knows what he has while he has it. Not after I'm gone.

Angela

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2/25/13 12:48 P

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I'm the same way. If it's meant to happen, it will be. I'm not going to chase for it and I think I'm the same way. It's more of a yes, it would be nice to have someone to share my life and the moments with my daughter with and be like...a family, but I've put a lot of time into me and I think that puts me in a better position to find somebody amazing which is what I want. I'd rather be alone than sick with someone else.

Angela

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2/24/13 11:12 P

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Yes, I do get lonely thinking about what it would be like to share moments I have with my daughter with someone in a loving relationship. Right now I'm not looking to fill that void just yet. My divorce was recently finalized and I want to work on MYSELF for the moment, as well as enjoy all the time I have with my daughter. If it is meant to be, it will happen, I can't keep looking for it. Like most of you, it seems that all the time is "chasing" after your little ones...lol.

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1/24/13 10:10 A

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Yes and no. I still miss the comfort and companionship of a long term relationship and someone to wake up next to but I am thankful for the support group I do have. They may not always be around because everyone is busy at some point but, I know they're there when I need them.

Simone

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1/17/13 12:14 P

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Oh boy do I ever! When I got divorced nearly 4 years ago my former husband had custody of our girls. Last June the youngest (last at home) wasn't doing well in his home with a step mother and two step siblings with major issues so she came to live with me and I was thrilled. Lonely no more I thought. WRONG... I love her and its great having her with me but I think I am actually lonelier than I was before. She is 17 and very social so she is out and about alot. I moved back to the town I grew up in two years ago and I don't have many friends here and a very small family. It is not what you would call a single friendly place, everyone is married with families. It seems like I do pretty much everything alone :(

In the end it will all be fine, if it isn't fine.... It's not the end!


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1/12/13 2:10 P

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I had been single since I had my son, I knew the meaning of feeling lonely! My son is 7 and since he started school I've felt even more lonely. It didn't matter how much I worked or went to school, I was missing something. In October of last year I met up with someone I've known since Kindergarten, and we hit it off. Lonely no more!! Sometimes things happen for reasons we don't know at times that surprise us.

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1/9/13 1:07 P

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I haven't felt lonely yet. I'm a 24/7 single, working Mom of a 6 year old so I'm like running at high speed just trying to stay on top of everything. I think, maybe when my daughter is older and off doing her thing, then that might hit me.

Angela

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1/6/13 1:30 P

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I do when my boys go to their dads house! But I try to stay busy as much as I can!

Trying to stay motivated one day at a time!


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1/5/13 9:04 P

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I play with my son or call for a cuddle time with him. He's my reason for doing everything....including becoming far more picky about who I hang out with. So a little time for reminding myself what I'm sacrificing for is all I need

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