My oldest kids are both girls, a senior and a sophomore. Neither one has had a boyfriend. The oldest has dated,but usually they all go out as a group. The younger one also goes out in a large group, but has not "dated," yet. To be honest, I am definitely ok with this.
I did tell my oldest that I'd like her to meet a nice boy. She said once she gets to college. She is pretty picky with whom she dates, I'm happy, and she doesn't see any boys that have her same drive or work ethic in her high school.
Besides, she tells me, she is too busy for all the drama. She plays club and varsity soccer and she has a job. Right now she is busy filling out college scholarship applications and figuring out senior year "stuff."
So, I'm letting her do what she feels is right for her. She gets plenty of attention and has many offers from boys, but for now she is fine and I'm fine with that.
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