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I have been all three at different times. In fact there are times when in the course of 24 hours I can be all those things. I have turned to soft mush and weakened at adversity only to become strong by my failures. Then I have become hardened by my bitterness only to learn humility in finding how arrogant and wrong I was. Then there were times I rose to the occasion and effected my environment in positive ways which were unexpected even though, perhaps, somewhat hoped. Those are the moments where we rise above the world and its troubles and find a spirit inside us that morphs into a golden bird that is our higher selves. And that creature is indeed beautiful.
~on a new road~
I need to learn to be the bean - I think I am most often like the carrot, but sometimes, I am hard-boiled like the egg.
I like it - 2010 "Year of the Coffee Bean"
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I hate to say it but in the past I've often been the carrot. Let's make 2010 the "Year of the Coffee Bean."
"There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure." - The Alchemist
"'Tis better to live your own life imperfectly than to imitate someone else's perfectly." - Yogic saying, taken from "Eat, Pray, Love" by Elizabeth Gilbert
"You must do the thing you think you cannot d0." - Eleanor Roosevelt
I am the coffee bean. I grew up with adversity, poor with an abusive parent. I worked hard to get my Associated degree, now I'm changing my water to get my bachelors degree and taking the necessary steps to become healthy emotionally and physically. With the love and support of my spark friends and family.
Bouncing back from some New Year's indulgences, I plan to make like the coffee bean and hold on to what I know works best for me...SparkPeople, drinking my water, working out and tracking my food!
Here's to a super 2010 everyone! :-)
Co-Team Leader for All Health Pros, Binghamton Area Losers & Laid Off But Staying Strong SparkTeams
Don't die with your music still in you. -- Dr. Wayne Dyer
"We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same." --- Carlos Castaneda
"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." --- Buddha
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up, She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.
Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil.. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans... She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.
In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, 'Tell me what you see'
'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.
Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.
Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, Mother?'
Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, how ever. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.
'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee
Consider this question: Which am I?
Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?
Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?
Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?
Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?
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"Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around" Penelope Cruz in ' 'Vanilla Sky'
I am not where I need to be, but thank God I am not where I used to be. - Joyce Myers
You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. - unknown to me