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((((((((((((((((( ANGEL Hugs ))))))))))))))

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I love it! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon Hi There! Going for a 2nd sleep study tonight to figure out what machine I need for my obstructive sleep apnea. Will be back tomorrow! Woo Hoo! Thank you for everything!!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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emoticon ~Waving hellooooooooooo happy Day

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~*~ LOVE ~&~ BLESSings ~*~ ALLways ~*~Deby~*~

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Oh! Beautiful Deby! Thank you!

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Thank you my LOVEly friend.... sending an ANGEL for your pocket






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Thank you Deby! You are so awesome and beautiful!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon



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thats one of my favs... Patti

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Thank you Deby! Hugs for all..... emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon


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~Waving Hi~

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Thank you for letting me know about your connection with my sister Laurie. I think I remember "JOKOKO" postings. Laurie's husband Ron is now helping to raise Sebastian. However, Sebastian continues to live with his dad, so Ron (as did Laurie) only has him part time.


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LMSW55 - Sorry to hear about Smurfette's passing. When I started this group (as CactusFlower), she was one of the first to join up. I know she and my mom (JOKOKO) became really good friends after my sister passed away from lung cancer. They both were raising their grandkids at the time. I hope she has peace now. My condolences to you and all your family.

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JIACOLO, THANK YOU FOR YOUR POST. HOW DID YOU CHOOSE YOUR NAME?

AND FINFIN, WHAT IS YOUR REAL NAME?

LMSW STANDS FOR "MASTER LICENSED SOCIAL WORKER" AND MY NAME IS MARY. emoticon


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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR POST FINFIN. LAURIE IS ONE OF 4 SISTERS, SO 3 OF US ALONG WITH MY 1 BROTHER ARE LEFT BEHIND. WE ARE ALL PREACHER'S KIDS AND MY DEAR DEPARTED DAD WHO WAS A UNITED METHODIST MINISTER, MADE HIS TRANSITION 5 YRS AGO.


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I'm sorry for your loss, LMSW55. It is a blessing when they know the Lord and are able to finally have some peace. My wife got progressively worse for two years before she passed away.While I know everything is better for her, it is and has been very hard for our daughter and I. I will keep you in my prayers.

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Thanks, I found the poem, changed a few things and posted it on his birthday.

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Ohio mom, I just read your birthday tribute to your husband. It is heartfelt. I am sure it resonates with many who post on this team forum or who come by to read the posts. Thank you for sharing this.


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Thanks for letting us know! My thoughts are with you and I am sorry for your loss.

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IT IS WITH GREAT SADNESS, YET SOME JOY THAT I INFORM YOU THAT MY SISTER LAURIE WHO SHOWS AS THE LEADER FOR THIS TEAM, MADE HER TRANSITION TO HEAVEN ON 3/26/15. LAURIE BATTLED CANCER FOR APPROXIMATELY 8 MONTHS. SHE IS NOW SINGING WITH THE ANGELS. THANK YOU EVERYONE HERE IF YOU WERE THERE TO SUPPORT MY SISTER LAURIE. HER DAUGHTER BONNY PERCEDED HER TO HEAVEN IN 2005.


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That's good.

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Happy Birthday David!

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I have not posted in this chat lately, but I found this poem I wanted to share. I made a few changes to reflect my loss of my husband and am posting it because today is his birthday.

Today is my Birthday

Today is my birthday
Celebrate our life together
Remember the good times
Do not be sad;
Look towards the sun
And catch the light
For I am with you.

Today is my birthday

I lived full of your love
And the joy of our children
Do not be sad;
Look towards the stars
They twinkle in your heart

I am there with you.

Today is my birthday
My legacy is not wealth or things
My legacy is you and our life
Do not be sad;
Feel the wind on your face
Know that I love you

I am your laughter and in your heart.

Today is my birthday
Learn to live again, without me
Stand on your own
Take my strength, you are not alone
Do not be sad;
Feel the rain on your face
Live all life's treasures
Know that you are alive!
I will help each step of the way

I am with you always
Until we meet again.

Today is my birthday...

Dedicated to David L B whose 63rd birthday is today.




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Hello again! Alway nice to see a familiar face!

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finfin I went to your page and looked at your teams, I was in 50+ members with 50-99lbs to lose. hello old friend

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yes I know you, from one of the old groups, nice to talk to you about I am sorry for both of your losses, Sal was a wonderful guy, always thinking of others

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Hello Darlene. I am one of your Sparkfriends. I remember reading your page but I don't remember when or where we met. I remember reading about your son. My wife died on August the 30th of 2012. I wish there were some way to find out when we made friends on here because I loose track.

I know he has been on your mind, and it hurts. I still cry for my wife, but mostly in my dreams now. But my loss, is her gain. I am here, but she is in heaven!

Edited by: FINFIN2 at: 3/24/2014 (09:56)
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Darlene....I am sorry for your loss. We are all here to support each other so feel free to let it out here.

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hi I hope this page is active, my name is Darlene, I lost my Son. Salvatore was the light in my life. I lost him march 1 2012, he was 26, his friend was speeding a 100 mph, he was the only one to die

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The last time my brother called and started yelling at me for nonsense after our brother, Jan, passed, I informed Peter that I could no longer take his bullying. Then I handed my husband the phone and walked away. That was the last conversation I had with Peter for several years. I allowed my husband to do all the communicating because I had just had enough. That was really hard for me given that it severed ties with all of his kids, which were a major part of my life. However, I had to do what was best for me. It took over 5 years for us to be able to be a room together and actually acknowledge each other. That was almost 2 years ago and I am happy to say he and I are now back in each others lives. I think it helped the day he came to my house for a party. Having him make that move into my space was very therapeutic for me. It made me feel like I didn't have to compromise myself. While I know I won't easily forget what happened, I was able to move forward and heal which was so important for my health.

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I know you support me on the decision, and it might take a bit to stop feeling bad about taking control of my own life for a change. Shortly after the message went out, the email flood started. I'm happy that My Gal had fun tormenting the ex and the stepdaughter, it made her feel good and that she was helping me by handling it yesterday. At one point, the stepdaughter emailed me at work, and I know it was an attempt at starting a communication. But what she wrote didn't encourage me to reply -- all she talked about is the trouble she's been in since her father died. She hasn't done any grief work, and from everything I know about her, she never will. And his ex is delusional, according to My Gal. So, I'm still waiting for the rest of the fallout to happen, but at least I know for sure that I'm not alone in dealing with this family.

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It is never easy to stay up to our bullies when it is not something you would normally do. It needs to be done sometimes though so that you can heal and move forward.

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I decided to wait until today to post the message on Facebook, since today is Anti-Bullying Day. Already his ex has bashed me in her response, the message isn't 10 minutes old. I've also blocked the kids, their friends & lovers. Now to wait for the rest of the emotional storm that is brewing.

I hate this.

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