Reesieandme, I'm hoping you are doing better than you were a few weeks ago. Don't be afraid to ask anybody and everybody if they know a place or program that can help you. Everybody knows something different.
God grant me the serenity to change the things I can, to accept the things I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Get in touch with SRS, Legal Aid and possibly even someone with a women's abuse center. They can direct you to resources. The emegency food bank may also have some resources. Your Dr.s office may have a social worker who can help you get some help for immediate needs. Do not give in to everything he tells you. You can get help and as hard as it is you have to think of yourself first. You are a normal human being with issues and not an inferior being. We are here for you!
Kansas~ CST Each step taken is a calorie lest behind!
My husband left me Monday night. It was out of the blue, for me anyway. I never in my life expected him to do this to me. I know my anxiety and depression are hard on him. Especially since I can't find and keep a job more than a damn day... BUT he never even told me he was this unhappy. He never once mentioned divorce or leaving me. NEVER. We joked about it, or I thought it was joking...
I don't know what to do. I love him more than anything else in this world. I realize now I put too much pressure onhim. But I cannot just make these anxiety and depression disappear.
He came to pick up his clothes and xbox stuff yesterday morning. He brought his mother. I am sure she is a HUGE part in this mess because she JUST went through a messy divorce and she's evil, no joke.
He also closed out the bank account. Left me with NO money whatsoever except maybe 5 dollars in ones and some change in a jar. Nice, huh? He would not sit down and talk things out with me. Said no to counseling. He also said he probably never should have gotten married. Breaks my heart just thinking about it.
I don't know what to do. I have a doctors appointment tomorrow morning thankfully, that was supposed to be just a med check up BUT now it may end up being way more than that... I need help. I just don't know how or what kind or anything...
And legal-wise I need help too. I am so lost.
Anyones advice or suggestions or ANYTHING would help me tremendously right now!!!
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