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5/9/09 10:26 A

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Monika~ Don't give power to people that hurt you. Allowing him to be the force that pushes you over the edge is giving him way too much control over your emotions. Only you can control your emotions and how you respond to others.

I hope you can find a healthy way to deal with your father and I also hope that you can regroup and focus on the positives you have going on this weekend! Hang in there. I know it's tough, but you can get through this!

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5/8/09 9:43 P

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Hi Monika,
Are you living with the father that abused you?
It souns like you have a nice weekend planned and an appointment with your councelor so think about that and try not to let your dad get under your skin.

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5/8/09 9:25 P

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I mean that he is getting on my case about every little thing, he is driving me nuts...oh well

Even the smallest people can change the course of the future.
-Galadriel, Lord of the Rings fellowship of the ring.

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5/8/09 8:29 P

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WHEN YOU SAY YOUR DAD IS ALL OVER YOU WHAT EXACTLY DO YOU MEAN?

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5/8/09 7:51 P

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This is going to be a long weekend, my mom and my sister left for a cruise today, my dad and I took them up to vancouver to drop them off...now I am alone with my dad and he is already all over me...I am going to escape when I can, but I am not sure I can handle this...I have now gone 4 months and a half without cutting and I really dont want him to push me over the edge and I lose that streak...I have an appointment with my therapist tomorrow, and am looking forward to that...I think the only good thing about this weekend is that I get to see my nieces on sunday, when we meet my older sisters husband for brunch...and my little sister who I am really close to is coming tomorrow...maybe spend some time with her tomorrow...we will see...thank you all for your support...big warm angel hugs.
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