I am totally in agreement with you.
My husband and I have been trying to start a family since before we were married. (6 years of trying) My sister-in-law and her husband got pregnant, accidentally. They already had 2 boys. (which I love very much!)
For months, all you would hear from her was, "it was an accident... I should give the baby to you.... we already have 2 handfuls.... you will know what I mean when your a mom....." I just wanted to dunk her head in the toilet and swirly her until she stopped breathing!! Grrr! But, I couldn't do that.
Now, she has this 2 year old little boy, (whom we love as if he was our own) when she really wanted a little girl. (which makes me feel a little better, but it's a hollow feeling) I still hear "you will know when your a mom" comments from her, but I just tune them out. You just can't fix stupid.
I know that when we have a little one of our own, biological or not, I will be a better mother than her. I have her as an example of what not to do, and my Mum for excellence. **evil smile** ;)
Edited by: ALINDAL at: 12/18/2012 (14:36)
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