Good for you :)
My ex broke up with me because he wasn't ready to commit, and wanted to explore his options... but instead of telling me that, he blamed everything on me. He said I was too negative (I was stressed, but I was working two jobs and going to school), he said we were too isolated as a couple (completely untrue for my social life... and wasn't his social life his responsibility?), he said I never did anything for him (also completely untrue). The first two weeks I was distraught, thinking I had screwed up this amazing relationship, how could I live with myself? Then I finally realized the true reason for the breakup was his issue, not mine. How dare he blame it all on me? I am rediscovering myself, and learning to love myself. Sure, I am not perfect, but I am also human and I deserve forgiveness and understanding. I have a positive outlook on life, I have great relationships with my friends and family, and I am a loving and caring person who will do anything for those I care about. No one can tell me otherwise, and those who try to tell me otherwise must not truly know me or appreciate me. I deserve better.
Thanks for this topic, I guess I had to vent lol.
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