I hope this doesn't sound too fluffy for you... this would be a good time to work on forgiveness. This is not a gift you give someone else, but one you give yourself. And you are the first person you need to forgive (and often are the last).
Holding onto resentment is said to be like continually drinking poison yourself, and waiting for the other person to die. Not very smart, is it?
"We practice compassion through acts of forgiveness, replacing resentment, anger and hurt. We understand forgiveness when we realize that every act is either an expression of love or a call for love." - Mary Manin Morrissey
"Your heart is the temple where God should be enshrined. Your good thoughts are the flowers, your good words the hymns, your good deeds the rituals. And love is the offering." - Mata Amritanandamayi Ma (also known as Amma)
If you need more words of encouragement, or if these missed the mark slightly and you'd like me to try again, just ask.
Edited by: ZAIVALA at: 5/11/2010 (16:08)
I overcame my spiritual obesity, now for the physical!
| current weight: 204.6