Guys look at this in a different way than most women do You first sound like you are an older gentleman who has beliefs that most don't about the wedding night.
a lot of times on the wedding night, it is a true learning experience if the couple has not been intimate before. Perhaps right now your issues are stemming more from the idea of that night. Even though you have been tested a lot and going to have more testing coming, you could be putting yourself into a panic attack of the thought of being together.
Just supposed it was reversed and your bride was having that problem as some brides have had in the past. Whether it be psychological or physical, you deal with it. I don't know how many documentaries I have seen with this issue. Most times the couple works, key word, TOGETHER with the doctor/therapist and figures out the reason for the issue.
Contact the nurse at the doctors office and nicely explain how important all this is and is there a way she could get you an earlier appointment/or put you on a list if others cancel. There might also be another doctor in the practice who could see you sooner.. Also ask if there is lab work to be done, if they could get the lab orders written now so you can walk into the July appointment with the most current test results now.
Honestly, I am in a sex less marriage now due to him having issues which resulted from his diabetes and high blood pressure. it is hard, but if there is love and committement the relationship will survive
Everybody tells me that they would love to knit, but they don't have time. I look at people's lives and I can see opportunity and time for knitting all over the place. The time spent riding the bus each day? That's a pair of socks over a month. Waiting in line? Mittens. Watching TV? Buckets of wasted time that could be an exquisite lace shawl. ~Stephanie Pearl-McPhee, At Knit's End: Meditations for Women Who Knit Too Much
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