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11/11/10 4:28 P

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I have to say, it depends on the man. I dated a man when I was 35 lbs lighter... that thought I was fat.
Today, I am losing weight for myself, but my BF keeps telling me I look great! and make sure I start doing squats if I lose more weight because he doesn't want my butt any smaller. LOL

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11/11/10 8:38 A

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How could I be offended by that statement emoticon

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11/11/10 8:22 A

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After seeing your pics I totally concur. No offense but it is nice.
Just sayin...
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11/4/10 3:34 P

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I was told the other night to NOT lose the butt

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10/18/10 10:34 P

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well im a bigger girl, and i still get compliments on my rear, lol. But i feel its too big, and i need to lose allot of weight still and firm it up more...

Age and stress and kids and ex's.... my body dang sure not what it used to be.

But of course feels good to get a compliment from time to time.

I think all women are insecure about there looks to some degree or other..i know i am.

But i also know i need to learn to love my body the way it is..and not expect to look like others who may be in better shape etc.

Of course i would feel sexier and have a better self esteem if i lost some weight and felt healthier. And that is something i need to start working on, one day at a time.


anyways just wanted to say, nothing wrong with having curves! and my nic name in high school was bubblebut! lol... and back then i thought i was huge and fat! and i weighed 125 lbs! lmao!!! god was i crazy! wish i was fat like that now! LOL

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10/7/10 11:43 P

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I have muscular legs and butt .. all my excess is in the front .. boob and belly! lol Leave it to you Joe to catch the eye with a big rear end!! lol .. thanks! ;)

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10/7/10 9:52 A

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Soooooooo yeah, I don't see playboy or Penthouse focusing on butts.. or do they now? I haven't seen one in a while.

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10/7/10 9:51 A

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KJ I try to stay away from the Guy's Lounge now. I felt so invasive after I accidentally went in that first time. Freaking man caves emoticon

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10/7/10 9:47 A

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LOL! In the "Guy's Lounge" forum (front page) there was a thread about what guys like and boobs was not number 1 or 2. I think eyes were first and then legs.

Of course SEXY is all about personality and has precious little to do with attributes.
Flat butt, small breasts, wide hips, shorter than 5'2" but a sexy personality trumps anything else.
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10/7/10 9:09 A

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Just caught this.. don't different men have different body parts they find attractive and it seems that the general ADVERTISED concensus is that most men prefer boobs (and the larger the better). I'm finding a few butt men, and those that say they are butt men, but when you mention boobs, their attention definitely sways. So therefore, since there are fewer butt men, I guess women are predisposed to make sure to get rid of the butt. Personally I try to make mine as uh hum attractive as possible because... I ain't got no boobs.

5'7 and size 8 to 10 is that acceptable?

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10/6/10 5:12 P

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I'm 5' 7" and would find your kind of woman a bit 'round', but hey, there's one for every kind. I'm a fraction of an 18 and still think I've got a big butt.

Sorry Joe . . . but it seems I'm fall short of your requirements (only a 6 here). But they sure look good in those Lucky Jeans and heals!!!!

Thanks for honesty!!!!!

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10/6/10 9:09 A

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Size 8 to 18 but with those sizes comes a butt to height ratio; an 18, for me, would need to be 5' 9" or taller.

....you asked.
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10/2/10 10:27 A

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You may like well endowed butts, but I would like to know what size pants those butts fit in?!? Are we talking well endowed model butt or average woman butt? From a woman's point of view I got to know!

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8/6/10 9:50 P

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I don't think I could draw anyone's attention right now! LOL

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Believe you me, not many men disfavor well rounded behinds.

Large hips and behind just mezmorize me in a good way!

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8/6/10 11:36 A

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If a man looks at my behind, I wonder why? It is certainly something I wish I could make look better...and, it isn't right to assume that they are looking because it's nice.

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8/5/10 7:55 A

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I don't know what men want but I can tell you that as a thin teenager with a round bottom I was embarrassed by the attention I sometimes got.



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8/4/10 4:31 P

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So, you attend a fashion show where there "HOT MODELS" everywhere,........and the BIG, MASCULINE, HUNKY men are,....are,....are no where to be found. Just the flaming fashionable men's are around. Why? Cause real men don't like waif skinny models.

The only skinny celebrity I like is J-Lo and there ain't NUTTIN skinny there!
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8/4/10 1:08 P

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I absolutely agree with LCORTEZ. We think that men want women who look like Victorias Secret models. That means super skinny. A big butt = fat, and fat = unattractive. As to why we tend to pick on our behinds more than any body part, I don't know. Maybe because we can't really get an accurate view of what we look like from behind? I am super self conscious of my butt. I am one of those women who, no matter how much weight I lose, has an ample behind.

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8/4/10 12:12 P

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In my opinion; I feel that women associate a big rump as being overweight and non-attractive. Reflecting on the model type they are all slender and not well proportion(except for the top).

But I must say that I did appreciate the old-school song "I like big butts and I can not lie..." emoticon

We can always depend on you Joe to spice up the conversation.

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8/4/10 10:33 A

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This is definitely not my area of expertise.. LOL

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8/3/10 10:42 A

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well,....if you were bending over trying to get it undone then,....um,....well maybe they were mezmorized by 'the view'.
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8/3/10 10:23 A

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Ummm...if that is true, why couldn't I get any man to help me open my radiator cap? Because, trust me, I have a big butt, as well as, other "bits"

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Why are women always concerned about the size of their rear ends? Unhealthy size is not good of course but a well rounded one certainly attracts a man's eye!

maybe THAT's the problem? maybe women don't want to attract men so they try to get rid of their butts...

This is true for wanting skinny legs. On behalf of MEN everywhere, we like well endowed butts, legs and *ahem* whatever else....

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