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4/7/08 6:55 P

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You are doing good, he is just yelling for help right now. Even though he may say he isn't or doesn't want help. Inside he is asking someone to notice his plea for help. I hope he does go to counseling. Best wishes to you and your family. I know you care and love him. Jetta emoticon

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4/7/08 6:49 P

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Stay focused. He's in need of your help right now.

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4/6/08 11:42 A

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Thank you to all of you. I do plan on getting some counseling for him and the rest of our family. I hope it helps all of us. I don't want to lose him or push him down the wrong path.



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4/6/08 1:50 A

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hi, you have received some great advice... I only wanted to send you a zilion thoughts for solutions and a sense of peace with your family... blessings emoticon

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4/4/08 11:42 A

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I second what Mitzi says. Get some counseling. Bad grades is one thing, but bad grades combined with not coming home? Not good. Did he used to get good grades? Is there a certain class he is failing in, or all? My dd is 14. 2 frieds I will give examples:

friend A- alsway has had good grades. Doing great in all classes but failing math. This is the teacher, as many kids who have done good are failing in her class.

friend B- is failing almost all classes. Stays out well past curfew. DD discovered she is smoking pot. "B" told me her dad had picked her up one night after her and a fried had lifted a bottle of wine and they had been drinking. She was grounded for 2 weeks.

Big difference as to why these kids have failing classes. 14 is a tough time. How are your ds's friends. Do you know all of them, and some of their parents? Have you talked with teachers at school to get a fix on what could be wrong?

Sorry so long, but just offering ideas...

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4/3/08 11:50 P

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this is not an easy question

You and your son need professional help. Ask friends and the school for names of therapists. Make an appointment ASAP

I've walked in your shoes

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4/3/08 9:13 A

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I am not sure if I am posting this in the right section, but I am at my ropes end and desparate.

Can anyone offer me any advice or support with my 14 yr old son. He is failing in school, and now most recently not coming home from school. Last night I had to go find him and pick him up @ 9:00 pm. I have tried everything with him to try and get thru to him. He is just getting worse and we are drifting apart..which I know is BAD for everything.

I told him the next time he doesn't come home, I am going to call the police and they can pick him up as a runaway and put him in juvenile detention. I don't know what to do to help him, to get thru to him, etc.

Please let me know if you have any ideas and please pray for us.

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