Lady, the others are right, kill her with kindness. My dad always says with people like that you should smile sweetly and agree with them, it totally wrong foots them and they don't know how to react!!
I am 55 and we went abroad to Italy for the first time last year and had a great time. Live your life how you want to and if others don't like it...tough..
know what you mean about the voices though, my hubby now is the most wonderful man who is always telling me how great I am and beautiful( and I pay the optician a lot of money for his rose coloured glasses lol), but when I am down it is always my ex hubbys voice I hear in my head telling me I am fat and ugly. we just have to tell ourselves every day that we are great, and we are
ps...enjoy Ireland, I am just over the water in the UK
Walk 1 mile per day
Nov 1st SW=240
| current weight: 240.0