It's hard for kids to go GF, but the tradeoff is worth it. You could tell your husband that you'll be a much sweeter wife if you don't hurt all the time. It's also possible that you'll find weight loss easier when you ditch the gluten.
If you have an Asian grocery store, you can get lots of different kinds of rice, and tapioca starch which is a good flour to have. You can also buy sorghum flour there. These two are a nice addition to rice flour.
Potato starch is pretty cheap; not potato flour. I started with mostly potatoes, and different rices, and fbrown rice noodles are not too costly. Just stir them often as they tend to clump. If they're in a casserole, they work well.
So, do a bit of flirting if you must. How romantic can you feel if you're bloated and miserable!
Good luck. BTW, check out all options. Don't know where you live, but if you have a Vitamin Cottage, they have the best prices! Look online for coupons, too.
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