Thank you for your thoughts, Jane!
It can be difficult when our spouses are not doing this with us. I know I feel a twinge of jealousy when I read that some spouses are on sparks together. However, this makes my spark time my own time, really, and that's okay.
One thing I love about my husband is that he loves being active outside, so now that I am trying seriously to lose weight again, it really helps me as he will ask to go for a bike ride, or go for a walk, etc.
I hope you can find that support, Jane.
Do you find that when you make healthy choices, he ignores them? Or belittles them? Or is okay with you doing them, as long as he doesn't need to join in?
The smallest good deed is better than the grandest intention.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.
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