I have not been through this myself, but have many friends who have.
My heart goes out to you as I can imagine it is very upsetting and frustrating to want to have a baby (or have another one) and to be told you cannot.
I would suggest that you find some information from a natural family planning organization. In Canada there is one called "Serena" and I know of one in the States (I don't know if you are there) called the "Couple to Couple League. Often used by couples who wish to space their children or prevent pregnancies, they have fabulous information that can help couples wishing TO conceive.
I can also suggest that you don't lose heart. I have known many couples told they are infertile but who now have two or more children!
Good luck to you!
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