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2/28/09 11:03 A

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For me and my hubby its a variety of things.
I think for the most part, we have to remember that as a wife or husband, there is that duty to please the other.
I know with age....things change..without children, you are more spontaneous...with children..you tend to simmer down.....For my hubby and I, who have been married almost 12 years...its just keeping that loving touch. The little simple things....that keep our love "FIREHOT" for each other....

Just remember, put a little effort into it...and your significant other will be appreciative...and want to do the same...before you know it.....you are running around like love birds....LOL

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11/3/08 9:39 P

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I got a book called, I kid you not, "The Great American Sex Diet".
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"Do, or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda

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CHILLMAMA's Photo CHILLMAMA Posts: 2,763
9/28/08 7:31 A

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LOL..it really works because he never knows when to expect it! We have been together for 6 years and have only gone maybe 30 days without! LOL!

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CX1010's Photo CX1010 Posts: 912
9/28/08 7:27 A

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CHILLMAMA, that's a new one! I'll have to keep that one in mind.

No matter how many times you have to start over, start over and never give up.


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CHILLMAMA's Photo CHILLMAMA Posts: 2,763
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I love to be very spontaneous! we can be driving and I will see a dirt road..I'll tell him to pull down on to it and we have a little" session"...LOL He is a wonderful man and I love to keep things interesting!

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SAMODER's Photo SAMODER Posts: 11,838
9/27/08 11:49 P

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We're taking dance lessons together. I've had to learn a new role to follow, and he has to be decisive. Also we get 45 minutes in the car each way to talk.

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RUSSETT98 Posts: 155
9/27/08 9:19 P

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My husband works overseas. When he comes home on leave, we usually spend the night in Dallas or where ever he flies into....then go home the next morning. That is our time together. When the kids were little and in school, we would go to dinner together or go to the mall and window shop.

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BRIDIEK's Photo BRIDIEK Posts: 1,180
9/27/08 9:03 P

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CX,
That sounds fun too the finish the sentence.

With our game though, if you have a camera phone it's even better lol. Your husband will never expect it! ROFL

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BALLOFOIL's Photo BALLOFOIL Posts: 828
9/27/08 7:08 P

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yes we have done that to, I have also written my hubby a letter describing everything I want to do to him and vice versa. Then put it in his lunch. A few months ago I found them in our safe:)

Just remember..........one day at a time;-)



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CX1010's Photo CX1010 Posts: 912
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BRIDIEK that's interesting! One day my husband got bored at work and text me so I started a game of finish the sentence to make a story. Of course I took the story to a kinky side, but in the end it was fun and interesting. Something we both enjoyed. It does keep things spicy when you can text each other your secret thoughts! Thanks for the idea!

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9/27/08 5:58 P

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My husband works out of town usually leaving on Sunday evening through Thursday evening sometimes Fridays. So, every so often like about 2 months ago when I knew they were on the road home and he was not driving I text him exactly what I wanted him to do to me after we took a shower when he got home. He about dropped on the ground when I picked him up at the office that I should do something like that! Then there was another time he started the texting...however I sent pictures back LOL. It's something you know he won't show his buddies because you are his wife and his only. Puts a real smile on their face.


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BALLOFOIL's Photo BALLOFOIL Posts: 828
9/27/08 2:24 P

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We go on dates. We try for a few times a month but get in usually once a month, but that still helps. We even sometimes just go out for a walk, just us, no kids. Sometimes that's all you need.

Just remember..........one day at a time;-)



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CX1010's Photo CX1010 Posts: 912
9/27/08 10:32 A

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I'd love to hear from the couples here to get ideas about how you keep your marriage spicy and spontaneous.

I think many times we get so comfortable with our spouses and we get into our routines, that we tend to lose that spark that got us together in the first place and either one person or both begins to feel neglected. I'm about staying connected with my husband, physically, spiritually and emotionally. I want to grow old with him, but I don't want to get so comfortable that we let our fire die out.

So bring the stories on! Can't wait to hear them!

No matter how many times you have to start over, start over and never give up.


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