This happens to alot of people here. I know that alot of my first friend are no longer here and feel sad about that. Yes it is very sad and have missed some very good friends. Hang in there and lets make a bunch of new ones.
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Thanks so much, I am glad to hear I am not the only one out there this has happened to. And hopefully one day she will show up again. I just couldn't imagine leaving Spark, even if I got to my goal. I would miss my friends here
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Yes, my very first Spark buddy seems to have disappeared! I sent her a SparkMail message a couple of days ago, just wondering how she is doing. Sometimes, disaster does strike and we never know. Sad but True! Rose
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WOW! She must have closed her account and everything. That would feel so weird... I really feel for you. I'm the sort of person who takes things very much to heart and once I have warm feelings for someone they never really go away. I would wonder for the reat of my life what happened to her and if she was alright. we had someone on one of our teams die suddenly and that was pretty traumatic.
What is really important, is to not take this personally, as hard as that is. This says a lot more about her than it does about you; and don't close yourself off from the other many wonderful oportunities for friendship.
I try to remember that this is a very personal journey and that different people will travel it very differently. I also try to remember that no matter how close you feel to someone through email and a shared expereience on the internet, you can never really know who is on the other side of those words, or even if those words are entirely the truth. Cynical, I know, but even well-intentioned, loving people will sometimes be here who they want to be, or feel they can't be in real life, and that is hard to sustain indefinitely.
I have had a few people that have just disappeared without saying anything! I agree it is very disappointing, but I just chaulk it up to I thought more of the friendship than they did! I am so Sorry that this happened to you! Do not let it get you down, there are a multitude of people who are here for support! Take care of yourself ad have a great day
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I had someone I met on SparkPeople. Really nice lady. We e-mailed a lot for a while. Then she e-mailed me less frequently, all through Spark. I've been thinking about her and wanted to contact her. But she has disappeared!!!! She isn't on my friends list anymore. I can't find any e-mails, comments or Sparkgoodies left by her! Anyone ever have this happen????
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