I've been doing this for 5 years, and I will say that those "blues" never do truly go away. However, we've kind of gotten into some habits that have helped. Every night whenever he gets off work or after he gets back to the hotel after dinner (depending on what time zone he happens to be in...) he calls me. Then, in the mornings, even if it's just a minute or two, one of us calls the other just to say good morning, missing you, have a good day.... It really helps to make you feel more connected.
I would agree with Ramona. I never like having hubby gone, but it is a nice time to really enjoy some time alone or with friends that I may not usually get to spend a whole lot of time with.
One last thing I'll leave you with: I am a hopeless romantic, so the time he's away (like you, often he's gone for a couple weeks, home for weekend and then back out...) I try to use to come up with little surprises for him to find when he gets home. Whether it be a new massage oil or a special dinner, or roses along the hallway or simply a new outfit to surprise him in, I try to go out of my way to make him feel special. It serves two purposes: it makes me feel closer to him because I'm just as excited to put things together as I imagine he'll be. AND, it lets him know that he's in my thoughts even when he's not in my house.
If you want to chitchat or mope (I do it still!), I'd be more than happy to listen. Hope this has been helpful!
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