There are lots of reasons you could be up a pound - water weight and remember that muscle weighs more than fat (small consolation, I know). Have you been mixing up your exercise? Do some cross training and interval training to kick up your calorie expenditure. If you walk - walk then add little jogging spurts.
You pick your goal weight for YOU - if you think you can get to 130 and you'll look healthy, have at it. I am 5'5" and I used to be consistently at 120 before the second kid came along.
As far as eating disorders - saying you look fat in one picture is not one step away from anorexia or bulimia. Maybe the person who said that weighs more than you or has a jealous thing going on? Nobody said it to you a year and a half ago because maybe you weren't doing anything about it (the weight) then? Keep doing what you are doing!
Hey - did you ever get yourself an IPod or MP3 player??
"I'm one stomach flu away from reaching my goal weight." - Devil Wears Prada
| current weight: 130.0