I have a troop of Cadettes and two co-leaders (A & B) who have been family friends without daughters in the troop. We've been having conflict between the leaders to the point where this summer my co-leaders pretty much stopped talking to me.
After a meeting a week or so ago when my daughter was in the car we had a huge argument and one of my co-leaders (A) went home and facebook unfriended me, my husband and my daughter. Mind you, my daughter and my husband had no knowledge of or involvement in the conflict.
I had called and emailed to reach out to both co-leaders over the last week and got some response from one (B) and no response from the other (A).
When I found out about the unfriending I realized that the GS line had been crossed and the family line had been breached and I asked two other people to run our troop meeting so I could meet with the co-leaders. I had told them that I didn't want to do this GS troop with them as long as there was damage being done to our friend relationship.
Long story short, conflict not over, A wants to keep working together, B will think about it. A has now requested to friend me and my daughter again without any apologizes or explanations. Daughter is confused and doesn't understand why this person who is married to her godfather would do this.
No one ever died from sleeping in an unmade bed.