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2/6/16 10:05 A

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emoticon RUN2RIDE aka Becky. I'm sorry to hear that life has thrown you some curve balls and now you are struggling with depression. My heart goes out to you. The good news is that you recognized the success you had in the past and have returned for support and motivation. Know we are here for you. Please feel free to lean on us.

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2/6/16 9:32 A

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Hi - I'm Becky and coming back to spark after a few years off. I'm starting to struggle with depression again... Just ugh...

Thanks for having me...

My ticker represents 12 years of learning and losing and regaining and regrouping - I'm NOT going back! I *AM* and *WILL BE* fit 4 life!!


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2/4/16 10:53 A

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emoticon to the team and to SparkPeople, JBRUTON0926. How busy, busy, busy you must be with 4 children from 9 months to 8 years. While you are struggling with depression, there are things you can do to combat it. Have you chatted with your doctor about your depression and weight issues? If not, it might be worth the call/visit. In the meantime, know we are here for you. Take this journey slowly setting a couple of small, healthy goals. Whether it be a 10 minutes dance with your children or focusing on your water intake, it all adds up. Whatever you decide, we are here for you.

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2/3/16 10:52 A

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Hi I'm 29 I have for kids who are my everything. Depression and low self esteem have controlled me most of me life but not any more I seen my oldest going down the same path I did and decided enough was enough so here I am taking control of my life and being a better role model for my kids.

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1/27/16 9:41 A

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emoticon to the team, DUKEBLACKSTAR. Try not to become overwhelmed with this journey. Set small, healthy goals and then reward yourself along the way. Whether it be new book, a massage or an iPod, these incentives will help you stay focused. And remember, you are NOT alone on this journey to a healthier you.

(Have you discussed the use of Light Therapy with your doctor? There are a number of inexpensive lights that with a short use each day can make you feel so much better. It might be worth the call.)

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1/26/16 3:59 P

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Howdy folks, I'm a 32 year old Oregonian dealing with depression, GAD/SAD, and PTSD and, might I add, absolutely currently wishing I lived somewhere the sun actually made its presence known. Sometimes I feel like we've got a dark gray ceiling instead of a sky up above here. Anywho, this is my first serious attempt in my life for loosing weight. My lifestyle has been pretty sedentary all through college and into early adulthood, but the combo of my metabolism dropping out (RIP) and the meds made constant, unrelenting, weight gain creep a harder issue to tackle than I thought it'd be! Hoping I can halt and reverse the gain and develop some healthy lifestyle habits along the way. :)

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1/22/16 3:52 P

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thank you mrs toad :) i hope to inspire people and help people while on my journey on sp!! these things are just so hard to do alone, and I'm full of enough experience to help, and i hope i can do so while here!!! thank you!!!

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1/22/16 3:41 P

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emoticon to the team, PUNK-RIOT aka Leeshi! I'm so glad you have joined the team. Your story will resonate with so many on this team. Not only have you inspired those who peruse this thread, but you are off to a great start. If there is anything we can do to help, please ask. We are here for you.

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1/22/16 2:36 P

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hey friends, I'm new today is day 13 for me, i suffer from depression, anxiety, ptsd, and all that wonderfulness... I'm here to introduce myself... so I'm leeshi, I'm 31 single mum of 2. the battle of self image really destroyed my life at a young age... i completely ruined myself as a teen when there was nothing wrong with me, i would never eat, take all these diet pills, get sick, i passed out numerous times, its a hard habit to break, too me till recently to feel somewhat good about myself... and now i weigh wayyyyyyy to much, I've realized i wasted most my life feeling those feelings and making bad decisions. now i have 100+ to lose, this time I'm going to do it the health and right way!!! I'm off most my meds, I'm working out, 3 to 4x a week... i just hope i can stick with it... i fear my bipolar will take it away... ya know with all the ups and downs and big ideas that never work? anyways... hello to everyone!!

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1/22/16 9:56 A

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Thanks Mrs Toad - love your ticker and keyboard doodle! I appreciate the welcome and support!

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1/22/16 8:24 A

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emoticon to the team, JBSTARAZ. You are off to a great start and have added some great suggestions. If there is anything we can do to help, please feel free to ask. SparkPeople is all about supporting one another. In the meantime, we are here for you. You are NOT alone.

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1/21/16 10:20 A

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I'm new and just want to say it sounds like you are taking steps to make some positive changes. I wish you the best.

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1/21/16 10:18 A

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Welcome, I'm new too! We have similar tickers! If possible, one habit I am working on is to not have too much of a bad thing in the house and also look for something I like to assuage the sweet tooth. I like Lara Bars - Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip or an instant oatmeal or All Bran with Almond Milk. Of course, this doesn't always work but they can be a bit filling and sometimes can defer action on going for a candy bar! I'm using Water My Body app if you like that kind of thing to also concentrate on ensuring I'm hydrated. Can you get some walks in to help with the stress? That seems to be the primary thing that helps me too. Take care and my sympathies.

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1/15/16 11:50 A

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thank you so much for that reply MRS_TOAD. I LOVE that strategy, H.A.L.T. I was just thinking of getting back to jouralling and that is such a fantastic suggestion. Thank you for sharing. yes, the loss of my dad really turned my entire world upside down. My mother is my rock and she deals with some health issues as well so I find myself worrying about what I will do if something happens to her as well. Best to stay away from that thought though. I have to let tomorrow worry about tomorrow for now. Thanks again for that suggestion. I will definitely start putting that into action!

Takin' it off SLOW and keepin' it off for GOOD!!


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1/15/16 9:03 A

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emoticon to the team, TCLINDSEY75 aka Tammy. I'm so, so sorry to hear about the loss of Dad. This is a substantial loss and one it takes time to heal. Know that you are off to a great start by acknowledging that this journey involves our wellness on multiple levels (spiritually, physically and mentally). Too often, we try to "fix" one without the others. One trick I have used to avoid emotionally eating is to ask myself if I'm Hurting, Angry, Lonely or Tired (HALT). If any of these are a YES, then I have a glass of water and take some time to journal my emotions. Whatever you decide, know we are here for you.

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1/14/16 1:13 P

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Hi. my name is Tammy and I am 40 years old. I have struggled with depression and ADD my entire life. And weight issues as well. I have always felt fat and ugly with the exception of those few moments in my life when I actually felt beautiful. I have 80+ pounds to lose.

I am working on me this year. Mentally, spiritually and physically. My goal is to try to find more balance in my life and get back to a healthier version of myself for myself and my children and husband. I come from a long line of diabetic people with heart trouble and am scared to leave my children without me. I lost my dad a few years ago and it was still entirely too soon. So I want to be around for a very long time. And getting healthy is the only way that is going to happen.

I would have to say my greatest struggle in weight loss is my emotional eating. It knocks me right off course everytime. Especially when depression kicks in and then I just don't care. At least not in the moment. I get upset, sad or stressed and I reach for whatever it is I feel the need to binge on, be it a huge bowl of sugared cream of wheat dripping in butter, or a whole bag of some sort of chocolate. I ate 3 king sized chocolate candy bars in one evening for crying out loud. I feel out of control all of the time with the eating but want to desperately to no longer feel uncomfortable in my own skin. Sorry this was so long. I just want to change my life and need to find something to help me tap into a constant renewing source of encouragement and inspiration. Thanks for listening. :)

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1/7/16 10:25 A

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emoticon to both Spark and this team, BERNMABT. It can be so frustrating to continue fighting our inner dialogue. Just as we need to make healthier choices in our food choices, so too do we need to choose healthier mantras. When those tapes start playing that you are overweight, say to yourself something motivational and positive. Slowly those tapes will begin to disappear. Hang in there. We are here for you.

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1/7/16 10:21 A

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emoticon to both Spark and the team, 53ROBERTA. We are so glad you stopped in. If there is anything we can do, please feel free to ask. Despite how you may feel on those dreaded dark days, you are NOT alone on this journey to a healthier you. We are here for you.

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1/7/16 8:02 A

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Hello everyone! I'm new to SP and I'm beyond excited to get started. I've dealt with depression and anxiety on a daily basis and it is a constant struggle. In high school I weighed 210lbs and since then I've dropped 50lbs and weigh a respectable 160. However, despite this weight loss, I constantly struggle with my body image issues. I'm so close to my end goal of 140 and I feel the only thing holding me back is my own self. Sometimes I don't know how to get past my mental block thinking I'm still obese. I want so badly to be confident, but its hard when doctors are still telling me Im hovering on the overweight line. I'm hoping that this SP will be the motivation and support I need to reach my goals and become the person I so badly want to become.

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What a beautiful motivational speech! emoticon

I am woman, I am strong, I CAN DO THIS!


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I to am new to this page but I wanted to welcome you and I know we can do this! I am still learning a lot about the page and it has been very motivational to me. I hope it does the same to you. Again Welcome! We are in this together! emoticon

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12/30/15 9:46 A

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emoticon to the team, ANYCHKAJANE. I'm so sorry to hear you are struggling so badly. Know that this team is here to help you find your way through this darkness. Please ask for what you need. We are here for you through the team threads and through SparkMail if needed. There is a light at the end of the tunnel! Until you can see it, let your teammates help guide you through.

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12/30/15 9:42 A

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emoticon to the team, RENEE3863. You have quite a busy life with all your kids, grand-kids, pets and spouse. It's a wonder that you have enough time to color and cross-stitch! Anyway, we are here to help you on both those not-so-good days and to celebrate the good ones. If there is anything we can do to help, please ask. You are NOT alone.

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12/30/15 12:33 A

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Old to SparkPeople, New to this page. History of depression, but experiencing significant depression during the holidays; unable to hide it from my family any longer. Drinking to cope. Undergoing therapy & hoping to go on antidepressants soon. Appt w/MD 12/31. Determined to get thru this b/c my kids are 12 & 15.

Bottom line: I feel terrible and I need to feel better, so my kids have a funtcional mom.

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emoticon i'm new to this!! I've been dealing with depression for several years. there are days where it's great and days where I don't even want to get out of bed. I have been on several different medications since being diagnosed and am hoping that once I lose some weight I'll be ok!!! here's to hoping! emoticon

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12/18/15 11:57 A

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Thank you!

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12/17/15 10:53 A

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emoticon to the team, FSCOTT30 and emoticon on quitting smoking.

You lead such a busy life and that coupled with depression can be so difficult. That being said, you are off to such a great start. Don't forget to reward yourself for each goal you meet. It can be such a great incentive on those difficult days we all experience. Whatever you do, know we are here for you and that you are NOT alone.

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12/16/15 11:13 P

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emoticon Keep up the good work!!


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Hello everyone. I'm a 30 year old Mother, Wife and Nurse. I've dealt on/off with depression, anxiety and weight issues for most of my life. I take medication that controls the depression/anxiety pretty well, but there are those days that are still pretty awful. On a good note, I just quit smoking at the beginning of December in time for my 30th birthday that just took place on the 3rd. I'm trying to slowly get involved on here to try and make my way toward some weight loss and an increase in my overall health. I have quite a bit to lose, but I'm trying to take small steps and ease into it so that I don't sabotage my new sobriety from smoking.

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12/15/15 10:48 A

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emoticon to the team, TERLOUISE. I'm so sorry to hear of your struggles. Between your medical issues and your agoraphobia, you have a lot to deal with. The good news is that Spark is a great place to socialize, find support and motivation. Feel free to lean on your teams. There are many, many threads in which you can participate or just peruse. Know you are NOT alone on this journey to a healthier you.

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Greetings, I am pleased to be a member of this group. I've been dealing with bipolar disorder for the last 31 years. Right now, it is pretty well under control through medications and therapy. I have debilitating diseases that keep me from working outside the home. I am on disability and live with my sister. We own a home in a small community, less than 3800 people. I also have agoraphobia and don't leave the house often.

I'm looking to meet new friends.

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Hang in there, don't give up, and keep your chin up.

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emoticon to the team, NOTURNINGBACK57. I'm so sorry you are struggling so. While you might not be able to see the "light at the end of the tunnel" just now, it is there. If you haven't already, you might consider setting a couple small, trackable goals to help you move forward. As you track these goals, you will quickly see your strengths and/or weaknesses. Each and every healthy choice we make really does make a difference. And don't forget, we are here for you. You are not alone on this journey to a healthy you!

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emoticon to the team, HEYSWEETBEE aka Brittany. You are off to the races as they say! Asking your sister for accountability and then setting up a date to exercise together is a sure sign of success! Your teammates here on Spark also want to help you stay motivated and accountable. Free free to ask for assistance and to participate in any of the team threads. We are here to help one another succeed in finding that healthier you!

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12/9/15 11:06 P

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Hi. New here but not to spark. I've tried so incredibly over and over but can't see there's a light at the end of the tunnel and give up. Needing to loose 100 lbs seems so impossible. I've been 300 + for so long I can't even remember what or how it felt to do simple day to day tasks without being tired out or hurting so much.

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Hi everyone, I just joined SP! I've been living with depression for most of my life but only just got officially diagnosed with it this year. Went through some tough times starting in October when my thyroid medication got upped and it really messed with my Lexapro. Started withdrawing and lying to people about how I was doing. I'm doing better now but I'm not having to deal with the aftermath. I just moved from Louisiana to Kentucky and am living on my own, and now I'm ready to start becoming healthier. Can't wait to get involved in this group!

xoxo Brittany

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emoticon to the team, STARSMEMBER267. Moving can be so exciting and yet, so difficult. It is no wonder that depression is trying to creep in. The good news is that we are here for you. We are here to share the good and the bad, the successes and the not so successful times. Feel free to lean on us. Even butterflies sometimes need a place to find rest.


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Hello! I have moved to a mountain town in Northern Alabama from a large city in South Florida. I have to say its hard not to let the depression take over. I am trying to focus on getting healthy and letting my mind heal from years of unnecessary medication. Thanks for having me. =)

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Thank you all :)

The hardest is to reach out and admit my trouble to others. We tend to put on so many masks and pretend all is fine. One thing that is helping me overcome this is realising that all the people that look like they have it all together, actually are pretending too ;) We are all broken in some way or another. And maybe, the areas where I am strong, I can help someone else. And in the same way, someone else can help me where I'm not that strong.

Thanks for welcoming me !

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Welcome back to the team! It's awesome that your husband is so understanding. That is always a good thing and can help so much. I hope you find what you are looking for and live a long and healthy life!

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PEPPADEW - Most of the motivation you are looking for has to come from within yourself. Some of the things I have found helpful are: Telling myself " I can do it," reading an inspirational quote each day, keeping a positive attitude-focus on the good things that happen each day and not the bad things (look around, you can always find people who are worse off than you are), helping someone else who is in need (sometimes a person only needs someone to listen to them,) reaching out to others who understand and having a strong a strong faith, I have found that life is what you make it. I have had depression most of my life. Have a great day!

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Sounds like you are well on your way to a full recovery. Big weight loss, support at work. And reaching out to this team on spark people. I also slip into depression easily so I know how it feels. I am trying taking it minute by minute. One of my emotional eating problems is fast food, It is so easy for me to get sad and say dumb things to myself. For instance, "I have had a horrible day and all I want to do is drive through Mcdonalds and get a huge meal and sit in front of the TV and forget this day ever happened" So I know those days are always going to happen for me, so I just am making sure that when they do, I forgive myself and move on. Since starting this way of thinking, Instead of my fastfood fallbacks happening several days a week, I only need those days once a month. I don't weigh myself anymore, but the doctors have let me know that I am making good progress. Yay.

You aren't alone in your journey. Keep your chin up and keep on keeping on. Welcome back.

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emoticon to the team, PEPPADEW. Sounds like you have hit a pretty rough patch recently. Between bullying, being the sole bread winner and depression... no wonder you are struggling with emotional eating. The good news is that you have not only recognized the correlation, but have reached out for support. We are here for you as you move forward on this journey to a healthier you. If you haven't already, it might be productive if you set one healthy goal to strive for each day. Maybe a 10 minute walk, a game of tag with the family, 64 oz of water.... Whatever you might help you replace the mindless eating with something healthy.

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Hi there

Things are not easy for me, but somehow I have to make a change for the better. I have been a member of SP a few years ago, but sadly I lose steam and courage fast. I have never been officially diagnosed with depression, but working through some recent issues, I've realised I've had some kind of low level of depression ever since teenage years.

Issues I have to deal with is emotional eating. Also, being the only breadwinner does not help the stress and depression at all. Due to a retrenchment about 4 years ago, I've slid down a very bad slope and gained 20kg's ontop of an already obese status. Currently I'm working as a Maths and Science Teacher at a private institute. I've been through serious bullying at my previous place of work, but my current boss has been God-sent as she has helped me to restore a lot of my self-confidence.

I've lost 15+ kg just working for her :) Its time now to shake off the rest of the baggage.

But I need help. I slip into depression and despondency easily. This is an attempt at reaching out of my place of isolation :)

Take care all

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emoticon to the team, BECCANATH. (I'm not sure you have been recognized.) I appreciate your comments to our other members. It's part of keeping everyone motivated and feeling supported. Hopefully, you have found the same. If there's anything we can help you with, please let us know on any of our many threads. We are here for you.

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emoticon to both Spark and the Team, MEG789 aka Meg. You are not alone. So many people have experienced weight gain as a result of depression. The key is to begin making small, healthy choices to replace more unhealthy ones. Whether it be cutting back soda, taking a walk or something else... It all adds up.

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I just joined the group this week, so I don't know that I have much to offer you. But I am thinking about you and hoping that you and I both will find a way out of this dark place. Keep your chin up, things will get better. emoticon


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Hi I am Meg. I was diagnosed with depression 5 years ago right before i got pregnant with my second child. I was off meds and started back up about a year ago. I have gained a lot of weight from when i first started to get depressed. I think it all started 8 years ago. I am happy to have started SP and foud this group.

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emoticon to the team, SALAM4545 aka Amy. I'm so sorry you have so many negative factors in your life right now. It's understandable that you are depressed. The good news is that we are here to listen to you and try to help you stay focused and motivated. If you haven't already checked it out, feel free to ask for what you need. You are NOT alone.

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I am sad for all that you are going through. Keep your chin up!! Your kids don't need much, you being happy would be a gift that they will never forget.

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Hi, I'm Amy. I'm not really new to this group, but haven't been active in about a year or more. I've been battling depression for most of my life, and have been on meds for the last few years. A lot of my depression stems from my marriage (I'm in the process of divorcing), PTSD, and being a low income single mom. The stress of those things seems to bring on cycles a lot faster. Right now I am having some pretty severe financial issues, and facing the holidays makes it worse. I need to get a grip on this for my kids sake, and I really, really need someone to talk to who won't judge me too harshly for not being able to see my way clear to ending these financial issues. One of the symptoms of depression for me is exhaustion, and a difficult time finding solutions to problems, as well as a fear of reaching out to people to solve the issues.

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emoticon to the team, HONEYBEAR103113 aka Nicole. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Grief takes time and for everyone it is different. I'm so thankful that Marco is supportive through the loss you both have experienced and the various medical issues. Know that this team is also here to offer support and care. You are NOT alone.

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emoticon new members.. emoticon to SparkPeople's DwD Team...Nice to have you with us on the journey to a healthier lifestyle.

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.

Mistakes are the portals of discovery.

Don't be afraid to give your best at what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves.

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My doc gave me some medication too, but I have had some insurance issues so I have to wait for the new year before I can see my doc again and get a refill or something.

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Hello my name is Nicole. I'm not so new to SP but I an new to this group. I am manic depressive, general anxiety disorder and PTSD with irritability. All I have to say is thank you Prozac because I don't think I can handle stress well. The doc put me on meds for my PTSD but it only made things worse. I was keeping my husband up at night because the night terrors were so bad.

I am thankful that my husband Marco understands me and knows how to deal with me when I hit my lows. I had a miscarriage last year and if it wasn't for Marco I would be lost. I still am learning how to deal with this loss and the stress of trying to get pregnant again.

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emoticon MIZZFIT2 aka Heather! I'm so sorry that you are struggling with real life issues coupled with depression. It certainly makes getting through each day difficult. The good news is that your Spark Teams are here to help keep you focused, listen to your struggles/successes and to be supportive through everything that comes your way. You are definitely NOT alone on this journey.

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Hi, I'm Heather.
I started on sparks about 2 years ago and went through some tough times a year ago. I was diagnosed with depression and I just kind of laughed it off but I realized I do sink down and let others get the best of me.
I seem to eat off of others emotions and get dragged down.
I'm starting again with weight loss and hoping to find a way through it.

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emoticon new members and emoticon to SparkPeople and the team...Nice to have you with us on the journey to a healthier lifestyle.

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.

Mistakes are the portals of discovery.

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emoticon emoticon On this team you will find people who have had similar, if not exactly, the same experiences as you. And everyone is so supportive! Together emoticon

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emoticon to the team, DEEVEEDUB. We're so glad you took the time to pop in and post. This is a great team to find support and motivation even when you are "lurking". It's all about finding what works for you and sticking to it. If you haven't already, you might want to set some small goals to work towards. Whether it be drinking 64 oz of water a day, exercising 10 minutes a day, cutting down the amount of soda.... Each and every small, healthy change we make adds up over the long run!

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Hi- I'm a functional depressive and I've been here at Spark awhile (officially since this September 13), just sort of lurking. Today I decided that it wouldn't hurt to join a forum for some support and maybe future friendship. Hope everyone is having a good day.

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emoticon to the team, BBYGURL415. We are so glad you are here. If you haven't already, try setting a couple goals to work towards like 64 oz of water a day or 10 minutes of exercise a day. When your goals become routine, add another to continue your growth. Know that whatever you do, we are here to help motivate and support you. You are NOT alone on this journey to a healthier you.

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Thanks for the encouragement I really appreciate it.

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