Welcome to the team! :)
I'm not in the same boat age wise, but I do need to be at a much healthier weight before having a baby. Have you talked having another baby over with your doctor yet? If not, I would definitely get on that, as your doctor would be able to go over all of your concerns with you- though definitely be prepared for your current weight to be brought up by your Doctor. I'm mentioning this, because I know it is a hard subject for many to hear from their Doctor, especially since some Doctor's don't have the best "bedside manner," so to say.
Any weight loss when overweight is a good thing! I really do think it's harder for women to lose weight, rather than men. Just try to keep on track- if/when you "mess up," just accept it, and start again. If you're not losing as much weight as you think you should/can be, take the time to write down why you think that is. Then, try to think of some easy changes you could make to try to improve. Just don't take on more than you can handle! :) Weight loss is a funny thing, our bodies don't always react the way we think they should. Make sure to always weigh yourself at the same time (with roughly the same amount of clothing) & on the same scale.
Best of luck to you!!
| current weight: 200.8