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6/28/12 12:05 P

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Hi!
I too have boys from 26 down to 6. I also remember being the youngest kindergarten mom this past year I was the oldest.

THis is a great group for you, many of us in the same place in life as you.

Welcome to the team!

~Christina
My word of the year is TRANSFORMATION
2 Corinthians 3:18 And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord's glory, are being transformed into His image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.
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6/28/12 1:06 A

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Thanks for the support!

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6/28/12 12:35 A

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Welcome! I don't have any on the older end, but I am 50 with a 10 and almost 8 year old! Whew....can their non-stop energy make me tired! LOL

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6/28/12 12:20 A

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I hear you. I have a 10-year gap between my oldest and my youngest, who was born when I was 40. Oldest started high school at the same time youngest started preschool. I felt misplaced at both schools! We did drivers education and kindergarten at the same time. Who planned that?!

I think you do the best you can. You are a seasoned parent so there may be fewer surprises with the younger children. At the same time, you need to remain flexible to accommodate their changing needs and growing personalities. Hopefully with age comes increased patience and understanding, along with knowledge.

I view my youngest child as the icing on the cake of my life, so I am much more relaxed with him than I was with my oldest. I believe this to be a good thing.

So I would suggest that you sit back and enjoy this season in your life. It will be brief and fleeting like the infant days, but so brimming with possibilities. While others of the same age may have grown children, you have the opportunity to keep doing new things and act like a little kid with your youngsters.

They will keep you young! And later in life, that will be quite important. Some of my peers are grandmothers now at my age (52). Me? I'm trying to run the bases with my 11-year-old and keep up with his latest crazes for long hair and skinny jeans. I wouldn't have it any other way!

Take good care of yourself. Go easy on yourself. Drink a lot of water. Eat as healthy as you can. And ride bikes, walk and/or jog with your kids. Conserve your energy now, because you know you'll need it later to face their teen-age years whiles you're in your 50s!

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6/27/12 10:39 P

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Hi all! My name is Heidi and I am 45 yrs old. I am an older mom and was once was that younger mom too. My little ones are 6 & 8, while my three older boys are all out on their own. Back then keeping the weight off seemed easy. Now, well, no so much. It is a struggle. Wondering how others find time to not only exercise, but find the energy to want to do it. As I get older it is getting harder to start. After all the running with the kids, schools, activities and work, I am pooped. I am hoping to connect with people who are my age group and understand. Most of the parents of kids my kids' age are so much younger. Most people my age don't have the little kids anymore, their kids are all moved out. Sometimes I feel like I am in a bubble, not connecting with either age group. emoticon

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