|Author:||Sorting Last Post on Top ↓ Message:||
I know there were definitely times when I felt like I was getting worse, not better, as well. And I would say that I miss my son more now then I did 2 1/2 yrs ago too. You don't miss them less with time, but you learn to go on with your life...and you stop crying all the time. I would say that I still think about my son a lot throughout each day. But he's not all I think about anymore. And it doesn't always result in tears anymore.
As far as the doctors could tell, my son and I were both perfectly healthy. My doctor told me at the time that the majority of the time they never find a cause.
I'm glad you're finding this group helpful and I hope we can continue to be a help and encouragement to you. God bless! Janelle
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thank you both so much for your comments. I know they say time will heal, but for me, it feels like im getting worse and I miss her more and more.
I am still chasing blood results from the hospital that I took back in Aug and Oct. They are checking for Lupus. I am healthy and so was my baby.
You can find my tribute video under my username (shaznaym).
Thank you once again and Im glad I found this on spark people :-)
First I am so sorry for your loss. I agree this team does make it alot easier to talk about and to grieve. Plz. give yourself time. Due dates are just as hard and around a b'day or hoilday is really bad. I Am Truely sorry and my heart goes out to you. My nephew's b'day is the day after my daughters and I use to HOLD my Breathe praying that they would NOT have his party on her B'day. Anytime you need anything WE are here!
I was going to check out your tribute to Isabel and for some reason I couldn't get it to work.
PROUD BAHAMA MAMA!!
SIS Challenge 15 lbs. 6in.
FITS .. 12.3 lbs. Gone! 8.5 in.
WIN Season. 2.7lbs. Gone & 4in.
PUSH (2011) 4.5 lbs.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it is and speaking with others who have been there too was definitely a huge help for me.
God bless you as you go through this painful process of healing... Be patient with yourself, it takes time.
I guess I am on here for the same reasons everyone else is. I had a late miscarriage this year on 25 June 2010. I was 20 weeks pregnant. She was buried on the 14th July 2010, which is a day after my sons birthday. I was and still am very devastated by the whole thing which has really shocked me and my hubby.
I am not looking for reasons as my Dr's have found nothing wrong with my baby. She was a healthy girl. But I am still grieving and finding it hard to cope with it. I think more so, as she was to be born this month and at the moment, a lot of my friends are pregnant.
I visit her grave often and it gives me comfort knowing she is there. But I miss my baby so much. I miss her kicking me when I was trying to sleep. I feel so empty.
I think I just needed to talk to others who has been through it who can understand what I am going through.
I have a tribute video for my Isabel that I made for youtube. Please take a look if you can:
Thank you xx