Welcome Elizabeth to SparkPeople and the Do Better team! Having support from your spouse is helpful, so as you get healthier his support will help motivate you to keep working towards being healthier. Sparkfriends and sparkteams like ours are great ways to find support and motivation, especially if you start to stumble in your journey. There are a lot of activities and information here, so putting in the effort to use the site will help you reach your goal and you'll feel extra beautiful at your vow renewal. You have two and a half years ahead of you in which you will change your life and become a healthier person so when you stand up there with all your friends and family watching hopefully they'll be inspired by your efforts.
Best wishes! I look forward to watching your journey to a healthier you!