Welcome to the team. SparkPeople.com has a great deal of information on diabetes which you can read at http://www.sparkpeople.com/resource/health_conditions.asp?condition=9
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The amount of carbs per meal usually runs 45 grams. That gives you a total of 45 x 3 =135 plus a snack of 45 for a total per day of 180grams. Do not use the nutritional menus on Sparks! They are not programed for diabetics. But you can use them as a basis for your meals. That is what I do. Please read all the information on this at the above site.
Also, another good site for diabetes is DLife.com. Just about diabetes I and II. With recipes and charts.
This is scary and seems hard at first. It isn't. I have found that I eat more fresh fruits, veggies and whole grains than I ever did. No more sugar snacks or wasted calories. Just a good normal life plan.
BTW...you can have cake, cookies, candy..etc...in carb range. Remember if you want them you give up- most of the time--three other better foods. Make wise choices.
Pay attention to yourselves that your hearts never become weighed down with overeating and heavy drinking and anxieties of life.óLuke 21:34.