GOSH, i have to admit i can so relate to your topic, i just hope for you it wont take too long
For me, i lost it a fair few yrs ago, still not got it back, though like yourself i sure hope i get "that feeling" back without having to "try hard" and "Dutify it for my poor hubby" just to keep him happy, bless him, he does know how i feel about my fat...lol
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I lost mine after surgery a few years ago. Some estrogen, etc., sort of helped but not really. I got to the point where I had to tell my then-husband sorry, no more sex. I left him shortly after (for other reasons). For a couple of years I thought I was done forever. Then I met a man I was very attracted to, got a different prescription, and guess what? I'm baaaaack! Wow is right. As for the weight and all that, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I looked at my body and didn't think anyone could be turned on by it, but I was wrong. You are beautiful, and you will find someone (or ones) who will see how beautiful you are!
PS. Get-N-Happy has some interesting ideas, but in my case I only wear comfortable clothes (or nothing), I don't drink, and I'm not into naughty. Do whatever you're comfortable with. Everyone is different.
Learn to be comfortable with your body what ever size you are. You can not fell sexy if you are not comfortable with your body no matter how small you are. A voluptuous figure can be very sexy. Dress up in some sexy lingerie . Take the time to find something that hides what you like the least and shows off your best assets. Go all out. Put on that garter belt and some silky hose. Put on your makeup, a sexy hair style. then finish it all off with a nice pair of heels. Now look at yourself in the mirror. You may be surprised at how sexy you are. When your ready show your new look to SO. Tease them a bit. Let them look but not touch. Let them tell you how good you look. Let it sink in. If you drink have a glass of wine or what ever you like to drink to loosen you up and help you feel comfortable. Let SO talk you into a bit of naughty fun.
"Associate yourself with people of good quality,for it is better to be alone than in bad company.
I think so! Wow! I think I can lose weight and be the best I can be and not be scared. I lost my sex toward the end of a bad marriage and really was not sure I could ever find it again. It is just beginning to spark...just a tiny bit, but enough to give me the idea that it is still there and that I can be happy and intimate and that includes sex! Very nice idea....even if it is in the distance. Nice to feel it as a possibility. All this extra weight has definitely kept me insulated. The times they are changing!
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