- I'm so glad you've found us!!
I am so sorry you've had to go through this and I know your pain must seem overwhelming, not to mention the fear, anger, loneliness and feelings of betrayal. But this is NOT YOUR FAULT and it has nothing to do with whether you are attractive or not attractive or anything else. If your spouse had integrity, he would have first tried to work out the problems with you, then if that didn't work and there was absolutely no hope, he would have gotten the divorce and settled everything BEFORE dating - the fact that he cheated on you tells me that he is concerned only about himself and as painful as it seems right now, you may very well be relieved and maybe even happy that you're getting a new life now. But - I do 'get it' and know the grief, pain, fear, anger and all the other emotions are going to dominate for awhile before any joy can take over.
I'm so glad you have found us and are willing to share yourself - that will help a lot. I'm also very, very glad you have such a wonderful sister to take you to the Bahamas - wow, what a great trip! I hope you have the best time ever and while I know most of us would rather look good in a bathing suit than think we look like a frump, i hope you can let your INNER BEAUTY shine and honest, when we do that people actually forget to check whether we 'look good in a bathing suit' or not!
Lynda in Orange County, So Calif
God Grant me Serenity to Accept the things I cannot change, Courage to Change the things I can and Wisdom to Know the difference!
Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out. -- John Wooden
"Winners are not those who never fail, but those who never quit."
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