Should your babysitter be your friend?
Well, yes, since she is watching after your children.
Should you say something to her?
No. Although I can see that it is frustrating, it is better to give than to receive. But it is odd that she would not even give you a congrats when you had your babies. If you say something to her though, that will just add more tension to your relationship. Is she good with your children? If so, I would keep her as your babysitter. Try letting go your resentment by forgiving her in your mind. There may be good reasons for her not getting you anything...maybe she was strapped for cash at that particular time or maybe she was just so busy it slipped her mind. You never know. :) So do not take it personally. It will only hurt yourself.
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