welcome...I'm glad you have those 3 little ones to put a smile on your face and keep you moving. I pray that your days get easier and lighter. Absolutely you can look great for your wedding, just one day at a time. Blessings
Glad you found this group. I have not lost a child and can't imagine. It is hard to get up some mornings with loss, but it often makes you value your own life and health. Come in and rant anytime or ask for a hug. We do understand much of what you're feeling.
current weight: 158.0
Fitness Minutes: (62,574) Posts: 15,034 9/13/12 9:37 P
So very sorry to hear about your loses, it is a sad thing that we all have to live through the loss of those we love and it hurts so bad. I personally have suffered many loses in the past 3 yrs, topping them was the sudden loss of my husband of 38 yrs and tho it has been over a year now, it is still hard, so I understand your grief. That is why this group is so great, we can share how we feel and we all understand. We all greive different and at a different pace, but in the end we all will get thru it together.
You are in my prayers.
Dot Goal: To do better today.
Treasure the past, live in the present and believe in the future.
Pounds lost: 18.1
Fitness Minutes: (149,637) Posts: 1,468 9/13/12 7:28 P
I just joined this group. I thought that others that have suffered loss would understand why some days I just don't have the energy to workout. I have had so many losses in my life. My best friend when I was 17, my dad when I was 21, my husband when I was 27 and now my 17 year old son at age 35. My son is the hardest loss and was only the end of April when he died by taking his own life. He was actually my stepson but I never considered him that and neither did he. I was just mom and he was just my child same as my daughters. I now have decided that I need to find one less thing to be unhappy about (my weight) and that I need to be healthier to be able to live a long life and see my three little girls grow. My girls are ages 6, 10, and 12. I am engaged to a wonderful man, we've been together for 7 years so at this point I just call him my husband. We do intend on getting married next summer and I would love to look amazing for our wedding. Thanks for letting me share a little about me.
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