Sounds like you are in transition as much as your son---LOL---hope you have plenty of room but sounds like you won't be actually alone right now. We are all in different stages so you will fit in just fine.
I have 3 sons---32, 31, and 22---my youngest son just graduated in May from college and is getting married in January. The older 2 are on their own. but with my youngest son's job, it almost seems like we are alone most of the time now so hoping it won't be too bad a transition for us. We do have a wonderful granddaughter by my middle son who is 3 and a half so we watch her when ever we can.
You are so right about you want to feel good about yourself---good for you in doing it for YOU.
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