SHALETA4 the key is that when you are struggling or off track.... HERE is where you need to be. None of us can support, help or motivate if you don't make the commitment to be here on the site and actively participate by sharing your struggles. I have answered many posts with messages similar to yours with a general hello and offer to help and then check back on their pages weeks later to find that there was no activity for them past their plea for help.
We're here for you but only if you come to us and tell us what you are struggling with at that moment! Otherwise we don't know you are struggling. Good luck and