Hey, girl, I'm so sorry to hear about the rough time that you are having. I'm also going through a pretty nasty divorce. My husband walked out on me for somebody just a couple months after our seventh anniversary. Our oldest was only two years old, and our baby was just three months old. He told me he'd found someone who was "skinnier and prettier" than me. I'm a size 12... no kidding, and he told me I was too fat. I reminded him that I'd just given him two beautiful daughters in two years, and he no kidding said, "that's no excuse." I'm not kidding you, girl, this guy is a real piece of work. Of course the girl he left me for is also married with kids, and she left her husband and little boys for him. The cool thing? Not only is she actually mentally ill and refused to admit that to him, but he was also a Marine, as well as her husband, and when his command found out he was sleeping with another Marine's wife, they ordered him to stay away from her, and he went and moved in with her, opened up a joint bank account, family cell phone plan, and they even started wearing MATCHING WEDDING RINGS! I kid you not! So they kicked him out of the Marine Corps!! Yep, he got an other than honorable discharge. OH! And.... he has since getting kicked out, quit paying any of his bills, including his truck payment, but he was letting HER drive around his truck that's in OUR names.... that I shopped for and picked out, and she was driving it around while he wasn't paying on it, and I just so happened to be driving by her workplace when it got REPO'D!! LOL. It was actually beautiful.... totally worth having a repossessed vehicle to my name, lol. So take heart, girl. I know this sucks and it's hard, but you're at a good place to get good support and encouragement. So keep your head up and remember, if he can't be good to you, then he doesn't deserve you, and you're gonna be okay. And if you need to talk, you can always message me, 'cause girl, believe me, I understand.
DD - Reagan, 5 yrs
DD - Ryan, 3 yrs
"Insanity is hereditary; you inherit if from your children."
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