First of all, welcome to the team!
I am very glad you have joined us.
Please don't feel like you don't belong here because of the challenges you are dealing with right now in your marriage. From where I stand, you are married, and you wish to still be married. Sounds like you belong here to me!
That being said, I am very sorry that you are struggling in your marriage right now. I do know that others on the Team have dealt with really tough issues like this, as one poster has mentioned already.
I encourage you to continue counselling, if not with your husband, then at least alone until you can try again jointly. Your husband does have some struggles, it sounds, with dealing maturely with the issues facing both of you.
As others have said, though, I don't know all the issues in your marriage, and since I'm not a counsellor, I cannot advise you.
Please know that I am thinking of you, though, and praying for you both that you will be able to journey towards a mutually-agreeable solution.
All the best to you!
Edited by: CJBAGGINS at: 2/4/2010 (18:32)
The smallest good deed is better than the grandest intention.
Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.
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