Another thing to do is work on opening your spark page to people who seem safe to you that you meet on Spark. Most of us have open Spark pages so people can get to know who we are and what we are like. We can reveal as little or as much as we wish.
But you have the right attitude.. keep on Sparking. Maria
Sing to the Lord a new song, for he has done marvelous things:... Psalm 98
Therefore we do not lose heart. Though... we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day my day....So fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. for what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal
2 COR 16-18
Doing nothing is the most perfect form of action, when I do nothing there is nothing left undone and there is nothing left to do.... The Way by Lao Tse